Wednesday, July 28, 2021

Euro [Teen] Handballers: Tiny Little [Spandex] Shorts" Versus [Cheeky] Bikinis

Claire Lampen posted on New York Magazine's The Cut that "Female Athletes Fined for Not Competing in Bikinis" ( JULY 26, 2021):

[T]he European Handball Federation just fined the Norwegian women’s beach team [150 euros (≈ $177) per player] for wearing tiny little [spandex] shorts rather than bikini bottoms during a championship match in Bulgaria last week.

[T]he International Handball Federation — unfortunately this matter goes all the way to the top — dictates that women wear sports bras and bikini bottoms “with a close fit and cut on an upward angle toward the top of the leg,” and sides shorter than four inches, during beach competition. 


Wait, are "tiny little [spandex] shorts" less revealing than bikinis? #rhetoricalquestion

And Lampen asked: "Do they impose similarly revealing mandates for male beach handballers?" Of course not! Apparently, Lampen didn't realize that the allure of nymphets extends to sports. For instance, we shared in an earlier post the discrepancy between the length of the French ball girl and ball boy uniforms. 


In particular to handballers, we made a GIF from the Under 16 Beach Handball EURO 2016 YouTube video, which, unsurprisingly, displays the nymphet handballers in cheeky bikini bottoms and the boys in (almost) knee length shorts. 

Tuesday, July 27, 2021

Mena Suvari's THE GREAT PEACE: Teen Actress Sex with Hollywood Manager & Lighting Engineer


Previously, we wrote a post about Mena Suvari's role as Angela Hayes in American Beauty (1999). For example, in the Academy Awards winning film, Angela (Mena) shared with her best friend and high school classmate:

“Your dad's actually kinda cute. If he just worked out a little he'd be hot...Oh, come one. Like you've never sneaked a peak at him in his underwears. I bet he's got a big dick...If he builds up his chest and arms I would totally fuck him. I would suck his big fat dick and fuck him until his eyes rolled into the back of his head.”

Very interestingly, Julia Jacobs reported in the New York Times piece "‘The Dark Part of My Life’: 5 Takeaways From Mena Suvari’s Book" (July 27, 2021) that Suvari had a number of real-life age-gap relationships that she shared in her memoir The Great Peace:

“I was getting accustomed to being cast as the sexy one or the sex object,” Suvari writes in her memoir [...] It was art imitating life. I was fine with that; I wanted only to get done what needed to be done and escape back into my own little world.” [Emphasis added] 

At 16, she says that her Hollywood manager, who was in his mid-30s, had sex with her. She was young, vulnerable and desperate for affection, she writes. 

Mena Suvari as Angela Hayes in American Beauty

It appears that Suvari's age-gap affair with her manager was consensual, but in hindsight, she appears to be implying that she was victimized, because she was "young, vulnerable and desperate for affection". 
The abusive relationship she describes in the most detail is with a man named Tyler, a lighting engineer she met at a rave when he was 26 and she was 17. The family she had grown up with had fractured, so Suvari surrendered to Tyler, she writes. Throughout their relationship, she said, he verbally abused her and forced her to participate in sex acts against her will. 
Here, Suvari is implying that she was victimized and would not have had an age-gap affair with the lighting engineer if she had not grown up in a fractured family. 

In the end, Suvari may not have taken any responsibility for her role in her age-gap affairs; however, she made it her responsibility to share details of those controversial affairs to sell books. 

Tuesday, July 20, 2021

AMERICAN HORROR STORIES: Teen's Turned On By Pain & Shame Porn

Here are the IMDb plot summaries for American Horror Stories Rubber (Wo)man: Part One & Two, respectively:

A teenager and her Dads move into a forsaken home with a grim past. As the family makes renovations, a darkness takes root within them.

Scarlett enters a twisted new romance while Michael and Troy are forced to confront their rocky relationship.

As it relates to the allure of nymphets, the first two episodes of American Horror Stories are about Scarlett who is a 16-year-old lesbian Rubber (Wo)man who is turned on by "pain and shame" and "extreme porn".

When Scarlett's dad said, "We're gonna want you to see a therapist."

Scarlett asked, "To find out what? Why pain and shame turns me on? It turns every girl on. Haven't you seen Fifty Shades of Grey?"

The New York Post confirmed Scarlett's stance that girls are turned on by pain and shame when the tabloid reported: 

Per Women's Health, the tongue emoji conveys, "I want to lick your [insert noun here]."
and the sweat drops "[...] mean any bodily fluid, like semen or squirting."

[...] youths mobbed a movie theater after they were barred from seeing the R-rated movie “Fifty Shades of Grey.”

[...] 100 teens rushed a movie theater Saturday night after they were denied tickets to see “Fifty Shades of Grey,” which is rated R and requires the viewer to be accompanied by a parent if they are under age 17.

When Maya (Paris-Michael Jackson), Scarlett's high school classmate, asked, "You've watched porn, haven't you?"

Scarlett replied, "I like violent stuff. Extreme S&M. Pain."

Maya responded, "That sounds hot."

As American Horror Stories Rubber (Wo)man: Part One & Two appears to be a teen lesbian exploitation series, unsurprisingly, Scarlett masturbated while fantasizing about kissing and choking Maya. 

In part two, the writers took full advantage of the allure of two nymphets. Scarlett had another teen lesbian affair but this time with Ruby (19-year-old model Kaia Gerber). 

Interestingly, Ruby shared with Scarlett that when she was 6-years-old, her parents sold her to "Uncle Tony" whom abused her with a low-volt cattle prod and gave her bloody spankings.


Thursday, July 15, 2021

Savannah Before Porn: A 13-Year-Old Wants To DO Rock Stars

Shannon Wilsey\Savannah & Gregg Allman

Savannah (birth name: Shannon Michelle Wilsey) was a famous porn star; however, I learned from Lena Dunham and Alissa Bennet's podcast, The C-Word, that Savannah, who was referred to on the podcast as, "[...] a 13-year-old who wants to drink and do it with rock stars," had a famous age-gap sexual affair with Gregg Allman of The Allman Brothers Band. 

Dunham: "One fateful evening, 16-year-old Shannon was dining with her mother when she caught the eye of 42-year-old famed musician Gregg Allman of The Allman Brothers [...] [S]hannon said that her mom suggested, "You should go out with him. He's famous [...] 

Bennet: "Gregg Allman and Shannon. 16-year-old baby girl and Gregg Allman who's 42 start having a romantic relationship."
 

Dunham: "Classic."

Bennet: "So Savannah packed up her shit. She left to go on tour with him for a couple of years. And no one was, like, ever alarmed that he was 26 years older than her [...] Pam Longoria [Savannah's mother] would later say that at first she was proud that her teenage daughter had dropped out of high school and was touring with a rock star [...]" 

However, despite the fact that Longoria suggested that her daughter "go out" with Allman and Longoria confessed that she was proud of her daughter's age-gap affair, Longoria subsequently sued Allman. 

Savannah\Shannon Wilsey

Interestingly, in 2021, Nadine DeNinno posted for the International Business Times: "Gregg Allman, 64, Engaged To 24-Year-Old Girlfriend: Shannon Williams To Become Wife No. 7"

Saturday, July 10, 2021

Victoria's Secret's Bridget Malcolm: "Claims" Told to Have Lots of Sex Before 18

There appears to be some backlash against the tropes slash themes of grooming and victimhood. For example, we previously did a post about HBO Max's Mare of Easttown where Mare advised: "Trust me. Teenage girls are fucking sneaky."

And our post on Freeform\Hulu's Cruel Summer was an example of why Mare's advice may be heeded. 

Most recently Nicole Douglas posted this boldly titled piece for the Daily Mail (7 July 2021):
"Victoria's Secret model Bridget Malcolm claims she was 'groomed by a much older man' - before suffering a 'nervous breakdown' eight years later" [Emphasis added]

Douglas wrote:
A former Victoria's Secret model has sensationally claimed she was told to 'do cocaine' and 'have lots of sex' to lose weight when she was under 18, during the early stages of her modelling career. [Emphasis added]

Bridget, who is fighting for change in the modelling industry, said: 'By the age of 18, I'd travelled to all continents except for Antarctica. I'd been groomed by a much older man. I'd been sexually assaulted multiple times.

But why did Nicole, a female at that, write that Bridget "sensationally claimed" that she was advised to 'do cocaine' and 'have lots of sex' when she was a nymphet? Does the Daily Mail and Nicole Douglas know something about Bridget's "claims" that's not being reported? #rhetoricalquestions

However, there may be some clues as to why Nicole used "sensationally". Some would argue that Bridget is making a common mistake by stressing the fact that she was "underage". For one, underage is 16 here in New York, but it's 14 in Paris. Secondly, Bridget may be implying that if models are over 18, then it's appropriate to adjure them to 'do cocaine' and 'have lots of sex' to lose weight. And Bridget may be implying that, magically, models over 18 are immune to grooming. 

Our point is that no one, no matter the age, should be pressured to use cocaine and become a nymphomaniac to lose weight. And unfortunately, many women are "groomed" and sexually assaulted by men of similar ages. 

Lastly, to Bridget's point, we've blogged about the fashion industry's use of the allure of nymphets to sell magazines, clothes and perfume

Monday, July 5, 2021

[SPOILERS] CRUEL SUMMER (2021): A High Schoolgirl and Vice Principal Sexual Affair


[SPOILERS] Freeform's slash Hulu's Cruel Summer reminded me of HBO Max's Mare of Easttown where Mare shared, "Trust me, teenage girls are fucking sneaky."

In Cruel Summer, Kate Wallis had the inhabitants of Skylin,Texas believing that she had been drugged and kidnapped by Mr. Martin Harris - the vice principal of Skylin high school. 

When in fact, without being groomed or victimized, Kate was attracted to her vice principal and went willingly and without solicitation, in the night, to her vice principal's house. Kate later admitted:

"I slept over that first night. That night led to more nights. And friends led to more than friends."

Just like Vanessa of My Dark Vanessa, a therapist attempted to convince "sneaky" Kate that she had been groomed and victimized. Kate shared:

"You know that my therapist [erroneously] said that Martin Harris basically was grooming me from the moment that he met me?"

"I went to Martin's looking for safety. What would people think if they knew that I went there willingly?" 

Despite the fact that, initially, Martin asked Kate to leave (Look, you need to go now [...] I could lose my job or worse."), the therapist related to Kate:

"Let's revisit the concept of grooming. A groomer isolates their victim."

Not knowing that, after some weeks, Kate did leave - only to return, the therapist asked:

"What do you think kept you from walking out that door?"

"He made it very clear that I had to choose between him and the outside world. I couldn't have both. And for a long time, I choose him," Kate replied. 

But just like Alisson of Being Lolitathe age-gap affair between Kate and Martin took a wrong turn after Kate didn't want to hide their affair anymore. Kate said to Martin:

"I can't wait until I'm older; so, no one will care about our age difference [...] After that, we can be a real couple."

However, for obvious reasons, Martin expressed to his student that he didn't want to go public. Consequently,  Kate said:

"I can't go on [hiding] forever, Martin. I mean, we can. Our bubble can't [...] The hiding. I can't stand it! "

An interesting side point in the series is that Mallory Higgins, Kate's high schoolmate, confessed to Kate that she had her sexual awakening in the fourth grade via Kate's dad:

"Also, sorry to say this, but your dad is kind of fine. Do you remember when he chaperoned our fourth-grade trip and he wore those really short shorts?" I'm pretty sure that was my sexual awakening - to be honest with you."

Lastly, without elaborating on Kate's thong and the teen lipstick lesbian kiss between Kate and Mallory, Cruel Summer has been renewed for a second season, the series scored a 91% Average Tomatometer, and Jenna Ryu of USA TODAY posted: "Teen mystery show 'Cruel Summer' mostly praised by critics as 'addictive,' 'compelling'"

Thursday, July 1, 2021

Tommy Genesis' "Daddy" Wanna Get It: Daddy's Little Geisha Bouncin' on My Daddy

In our latest book, Teens Love and Want to F*ck James Franco: A Study of a Life and Works, we devoted an entire chapter to The Daddy Thing. 

For example, we wrote about how some teens like yamiibear would leave comments on James Franco's since deleted Instagram account such as "Let me call you daddy (:"

And in a previous post, we shared that Dr. Phil desperately wanted his young fans to stop calling him Daddy. “You have to stop commenting ‘daddy’ on all my posts” 

Now, we'd like to share Tommy Genesis' "Daddy", which is a song about a Daddy who likes her "better with no makeup" - presumably because, "Daddy's little Geisha", looks (even) younger without makeup. 

Apparently, Daddy loves his little Geisha, but the feeling may not be mutual. "He just say he love me, I can't say it back" 

However, Daddy was asked, "Oh, you wanna get it, daddy?" [Emphasis added] Unsurprisingly, he said yes. Consequently, the little Geisha shared, "Catch me bouncin' on my daddy, bounce-bouncing' on my daddy"

Here's the song's chorus, verse 1, pre-chorus, and verse 2. The full lyrics are here

[Chorus]
He like me better with no makeup
Oh, you wanna get it, daddy?
Oh, you wanna get it, daddy?
He call me "Daddy's little Geisha"
Oh, you wanna get it, daddy?
Oh, you wanna get it, daddy?
I'm makin' love with his face, uh
Oh, you wanna get it, daddy?
Oh, you wanna get it, daddy?
Charlie gonna make the bass bump
Oh, you wanna get it, daddy?
Oh, you wanna get it, daddy?

[Verse 1]
Two in a row, fuckin' it up, I do what I want
I like to floss, big like a boss, hash in the blunt (Got hash in the blunt)
He just say he love me, I can't say it back
He just bought me diamonds, I don't feel bad
Let 'em smell the flower 'fore he go down
L-l-let him smell the flower 'fore he go down
Catch me bouncin' on my daddy, bounce-bouncing' on my daddy
If it's good, then I'm yours, and I'm bouncin' on my daddy

[Pre-Chorus]
Wanna fuck up my makeup, he put in work, no pay cut
And he just wanna wake up next to me and eat the cake up
Wanna fuck up my makeup, he put in work, no pay cut
And he just wanna lay up next to me and beat the cake up

[Verse 2]
Icing on the cake, blow the bag like a candle
Can you fill my needs? 'Cause I'm too much to handle (handle)
Take one for the team, 'cause you know that I'm winnin' (winnin')
You can't fuck with me if I gave you permission (Swish, ah)


Thursday, June 17, 2021

HYSTERICAL GIRL (2020) & Dora: A Teen, Young Girl, & German Man | Freud's Age-Gap Case Study

the screenwriter, producer and director of 
Hysterical Girl (2020), summarized her short documentary for the New York Times as follows:

The short documentary above re-examines one of Sigmund Freud’s five major psychological case histories — the only one he produced of a female patient. “Hysterical Girl” uses a feminist lens to imagine Dora, the name Freud used at the turn of the 20th century to protect his subject’s identity, as a girl today. In the film, she tells her [fictional] version of events, alongside Freud’s own words. [Emphasis added]

Dora was 17 when her parents brought her to therapy after she accused a family friend of sexual assault [sic]. “Please,” Dora’s father asked Freud, “bring her to reason.” During the 11-week treatment, Freud chipped away at the case: Why would you continue to see the man you say assaulted you? Are you out for revenge? Did you secretly want it? A century later, the questions women face in similar circumstances haven’t changed much.

If you haven't read Freud's case study, it's important to emphasize that:

  • Novack: "[....] uses a feminist lens to imagine Dora."
  • Novack: "[...] tells her [fictional] version of events, alongside Freud’s own words."
  • Dora did not report that she was sexually assaulted; however, the family friend made a "sexual proposition"

And by comparing Dora's family friend to the likes Clarence Thomas, Brett Kavanaugh, and Jeffrey Epstein, Novack was being revealing when she wrote that: “Hysterical Girl” uses a feminist lens to imagine Dora [...]," because unlike Freud, one would be hard pressed to find a feminist whom would (openly) share that a nymphet could possibly be attracted to an older man.


Let's take a closer look at Freud's version of events. (Interestingly, nymphets typically have to be convinced that they were groomed and victimized, but Freud attempted to reassure Dora, whose real name was Ida Bauer, of just the opposite.)

Here's the event that prompted Ida's parent, whom married when her father was 27 and her mother was 18, to have her visit Freud:  

In summer of 1989, 16-year-old Ida and her family went to a lakeside resort to visit the Zellenkas family. Ida told her parents that during the visit, Herr Zellenka made a sexual proposition to her, which caused Ida to slap his face and run away. 

Subsequently, Ida's parents found a letter in her desk in which she stated that she couldn't bear living. Soon after, Ida fainted, she suffered a bout of amnesia, and her father took her to Freud, "Please try to bring her round to a better way of thinking."

Initially, Herr Zellenka denied the allegations, and Frau Zellenka reported that Ida: "[...] showed an interest in sexual matters and nothing else [...]". And that the nymphet had been reading Mantegazza's Physiology of Love and other books of the sort. 

It turns out that Herr Zellenka had previously kissed Ida - when she was 14. #plottwist It happened after Herr Zellenka invited Ida to his shop to watch a church procession, and while they were alone, he took the opportunity to hold her close and give her kiss on the lips. Ida fled the scene but kept in contact with Herr Zellenka.

Afterwards, Herr Zellenka sent Ida flowers and "expensive presents". As mentioned in the documentary, one of the presents was a jewel box that Freud interpreted as a box that Herr Zellenka wanted Ida to place her jewels in. 

Per Freud, Ida admitted that, after the kiss but prior to the lakeside scene, she could have been in love with Herr Zellenka. So why did Ida reject Herr Zellenka's sexual proposition at the lakeside resort?

It turns out that before Herr Zellenka propositioned Ida, she learned from the governess, a young girl, that Herr Zellenka and the governess had a sexual affair that Herr ended abruptly. The governess fled once she was certain that the affair would not resume. Thus, per Freud, Ida violently rebuffed Herr's advances due to "vengeful jealousy". Ida was aghast to learn that Herr even used the same lines with the governess, "There is nothing between me and my wife."

What Novack's documentary left out is that Ida admitted to Freud that after the sexual proposition, she desired to see Herr again, because she wanted him to prove that he was "serious" and didn't intend to: "[...] toy with her feelings as he did with the governess."

Interestingly, after his sessions with Ida, Freud came to, among others, the following conclusions:

  • Ida practiced "childhood masturbation"
  • Ida had a "[...] deeply rooted homosexual love for Frau K [i.e., Herr Zellenka]" whom Ida opined had an "enchantingly white body"
  • Ida had a "defloration fantasy" that starred Herr Zellenka
And there were some interestings footnote in the slim volume e.g., a 14-year-old girl, who suffered from "alarming hysterical vomiting", shared with Freud that she had been "[...] masturbating for many years with a strong flux of flour albus* [*a whitish vaginal discharge] (which [per Freud] was clearly linked to her vomiting).

Lastly, we want to be perfectly clear and state that we don't condone Herr Zellenka's behavior, because men should avoid kissing, without consent, and men should avoid sexually propositioning any woman - of any age. 

Monday, June 14, 2021

RAIDERS OF THE LOST ARK (1981): Indiana Jones Was Not a Pedophile & She Knew What She Was Doing


Kevin Kayhart posted on the Daily Mail (9 June 2021): "Raiders Of The Lost Ark's Karen Allen defends her underage character Marion's relationship with Indiana Jones: 'I don't think of him as a pedophile'"

In the post, Kayhart wrote:

Karen Allen, star of the classic film Raiders Of The Lost Ark (1981), has come out in defense of the age gap between her character Marion Ravenwood and love interest Indiana Jones, played by Harrison Ford.      

Over the last few years, the reunion scene, where the age difference is insinuated, has come under scrutiny enough for Allen to go public and declare Indy is 'not a pedophile.'  

In the scene, Marion punches Indy and says, 'I've learned to hate you in the last 10 years.' After explaining how he never meant to hurt her, she responds, 'I was a child! I was in love! It was wrong and you knew it,' for which Indy shoots back: 'You knew what you were doing.'  

During an interview with Uproxx, Allen weighed-in on the scrutiny and revealed the age she thought her character was during their initial relationship.

'I think I say I was 16. I don't know. That's always what I imagined is she was 16, he was 26. And he was her father's student. And it's left very mysterious,' Allen, 69, said before sharing a couple of potential scenarios about their past.

Raiders Of The Lost Ark (1981)

Well, of course Indiana Jones could not have been a pedophile, because at 16, Marion would have been post-pubertal; thus, Jones would correctly be referred to as a(n) ephebophile\nympholept, which is much less ominous. And based on the New York Times Notable Book, The Red Queen, and the (incorrectly titled) documentary Are All Men Pedophiles? (2013), all men are nympholepts. 

We're shocked that there hasn't been particular attention paid to Jone's clapback, "You knew what you were doing." Thereby, to the dismay of middle-aged feminists and teen boys, Jones opined that at 16, Marion was old enough to consent to an age-gap relationship and that he didn't groom or victimize Marion. (We're assuming that Jones observed the local age-of-consent laws.)


However, based on the transcripts of the story conferences between George Lucas, Spielberg and Lawrence Kasdan, Marion was an even younger nymphet:
Lucas: He could have known this little girl when she was just a kid. Had an affair with her when she was eleven. 
Kasdan: And he was forty-two. 
Lucas: He's thirty-five, and knew her ten years ago when he was twenty-five and she was only twelve. 
Lucas: It would be amusing to make her slightly young at the time. [Slightly?] 
Spielberg: And promiscuous. She came on to him.
Lucas: Fifteen is right on the edge [...] it is interesting. Once she's sixteen or seventeen it's not interesting anymore. But if she was fifteen and he was twenty-five and they actually had an affair the last time they met. And she was madly in love with and he. 
Spielberg: She has pictures of him.

Initially, Lucas and Kasdan suggested that Marion be 11 and Jones be 42. Then Lucas suggested that Marion be 12 and Jones be 35. And Spielberg added that Marion should be a nubile nymphet - both promiscuous and a seductress. Interestingly, Lucas opined that a 16 or 17-year-old nymphet is not as alluring as one 15 and younger. And Lucas suggested that Marion be 15 "right on the edge" and have a (sexual) affair with Jones while being "madly in love". 

Jurassic Park (1993)

Lastly, Kayhart's piece reminded me of a scene from Spielberg's Jurassic Park (1993). In the scene, when a Vegasaurus happened upon Dr. Grant, Tim and Lex (Ariana Richards), Tim said, "It looks like it has a cold." However, since there are no visible signs of a cold, it's not apparent from the film how Tim was able to make that diagnosis. 

Thus, my question is, did Spielberg spew the rich viscous fluid from the phallic Vegasaurus upon Ariana Richards' 14-year-old face as a sexual innuendo, as an attempt at comedy, or both? 

Saturday, June 12, 2021

The Young Copywriter's Thing for Way Older Men


In The Cut's "Sex Diaries" (JUNE 6, 2021), a 23-year-old Brooklyn based copywriter confessed: "Somehow I only ever want to date men who are way older." [Emphasis added]

And she "impulsively confess[ed]" her feelings for a scientist, whom she shared of the man who's 11 years her senior,: "Funny how I can’t go a day without thinking about him now."

However, The Scientist informed the copywriter that he liked her but "[...] the timing is wrong."

She thought, while on a date with an indie-pop musician whom she met in high school,: “Wow, I wish I was with The Scientist right now.”

Ultimately, The Scientist informed her that he hadn't: 
"[...] been in a serious relationship in years, that he has a lot on his plate at the moment, and that his emotionally distant personality and strong love of threesomes is bound to “make me miserable.” [Emphasis added]
Even though, The Scientist told the copywriter that he "still likes" her, by 11:55 p.m. on DAY SEVEN, he hadn't responded to a text that she sent on DAY SIX at 5 p.m..

Thursday, June 10, 2021

[SPOILERS] HBO's MARE OF EASTTOWN: "Teenage Girls Are Fucking Sneaky"

Here's HBO's plot summary for Mare of Easttown:

As her life crumbles around her, a small-town Pennsylvania detective Mare Sheehan (Kate Winslet) investigates a local murder [of Erin]. The series explores the dark side of a close community and provides an authentic examination of how family and past tragedies can define our present.

Mare of Easttown is unique in its use of the allure of a (dead) nymphet to make a hit streaming series. For example, near the beginning of episode 2, Erin's 17-year-old topless corpse was on display. 

Erin's 17-year-old Topless Corpse

And very interestingly, the series did not consider Erin a victim in her attempt at teen prostitution via Sidedoor's escort service, and the series did not imply that Erin was groomed into her age-gap sexual affair with John Ross.  

Of Erin, Mare said:

"If you're a teenage girl, baby at home and a [strict] dad like Kenny, you're not gonna open an account on Sidedoor with pictures like this on your own computer. Trust me. Teenage girls are fucking sneaky."

Detective Colin Zabel, Mare's partner, may have been naive about nubile nymphets, but not Mare.  Erin may not have considered teen prostitution for a Prada bag, but nonetheless, 17-year-old Erin seriously contemplated teen prostitution to earn money for your child's ear surgery.

Of his relationship with Erin, John Ross shared with Mare:

"It wasn't just sex, okay? Yes, there was sex. It was. We were both having a hard time. I mean, she was having problems at home, and then things between Lor [my wife] and me weren't great. We could confide in each other in a way that we couldn't with other people. I mean, we had this connection." [Emphasis mine]

Erin's Sidedoor Escort Account

Thus, John stressed that his age-gap affair with Erin was consensual. Erin even hid a photograph in her bedroom of the age-gap couple - postcoital. But more interestingly, not once did Mare accuse John of grooming and victimizing Erin.

Uncle John & Erin Postcoital

Erin didn't want to end her age-gap affair with John, because she came to the realization or was convinced that she was groomed and/or a victimized. It turns out that she was simply tired of the lies (i.e., hiding her age-gap affair) and wanted to go public. To which John replied:

"Are you fucking crazy! You're a fucking child!"

And John's son did not confront his father about having an affair with Erin. On the contrary - he scolded Erin. 

"Stay away from my family! Why would you do this?" [Emphasis mine] 

Wait, although it wasn't stressed in the series, did I mention that John was Erin's uncle?! 

Let's review Erin's "sneaky" behavior:

Erin made an account of Sidedoor, an online escort service

Erin had an consensual incestuous affair with her uncle 

Erin took a postcoital selfie (with her uncle in the background) 

Erin told her boyfriend that John's baby was his son. (Yes. Erin had a teen boyfriend too whom shared that, in terms of his parent's attic, "That's where she'd suck my dick.") 

Mare of Easttown and Mare's comment about "fucking sneaky" teens reminded me of Betsy Karasik's Washington Post Op-Ed (August 30, 2013) where she opined that consensual sex between teachers and high school students should not be criminalized:

"When it comes to having sex on the brain, teenage boys got nothin’ on us. When I was growing up in the 1960s and ’70s, the sexual boundaries between teachers and students were much fuzzier. Throughout high school, college and law school, I knew students who had sexual relations with teachers. To the best of my knowledge, these situations were all consensual in every honest meaning of the word..."

15-year-old Winslet in Dark Season

And talk about art imitating life. Per Kate Winslet's Wikipedia page, 15-year-old Winslet had an age-gap affair with 27-year-old actor-writer Stephen Tredre:

While filming Dark Season, 15-year-old Winslet began a romantic relationship with actor-writer Stephen Tredre, twelve years her senior.[14][200] She considered him a major influence in her life and they lived together in London.[7][24][222] They broke up in 1995, but remained close until he died of bone cancer two years later.[14][223] Winslet skipped the premiere of Titanic to attend his funeral.[224] In a 2008 interview, she admitted to having never got over his death.[7]

 

Wednesday, June 2, 2021

BIG LITTLE LIES: Teen Sex & Virginity 4 Sale For College

Abigail didn't share the details about her secret passion project with her father, but she shared: 

"Well, colleges look for passion projects now, you know. It's not just about, like, GPA and being captain of volleyball." 

Subsequently, Abigail's step-mother, sympathetically shared with Abigail's father: 

"She is auctioning off her virginity on the Internet. For Amnesty International; so, it is for a very good cause."
"She's selling her virginity on the Internet?!"
"Good cause?"

Consequently, Abigail's father asked:

"What the fuck! You're selling your virginity?"
"Yeah. I thought you'd be proud of me."
"Proud of you?"
"Yeah. A lot of girls lose their virginity for a lot less."

The following morning, Abigail's father tried to rationalize with her, but she responded:

"Dad, come on. A 16-year-old white girl from Monterey selling her virginity online? Wolf Blitzer would saddle that up for weeks. That's the way."

Wait, did Nabokov write those lines? Wolf [would] blitz her. And saddle that up. For weeks!

Like Demi Moore's mother, it appeared that Abigail's father began to condone teen prostitution. He shared with his ex-wife:

"Abigail is auctioning off her virginity in order to raise money to protest sex slavery. No, I'm being serious. She said if a 7-year-old can be sold to sex slavery, then no one would bat an eye if a white, rich American girl sell hers online."
 

Saxena wrote in the Elle post "Why Aren't We Talking About Abigail's 'Secret Virginity Project' On Big Little Lies?" (MAR 30, 2017):

[...] Abigail's project raises—about virginity, sex work, and social consciousness—are worthy ones.

When I first watched the episode I, like Madeline and Nathan, thought Abigail's project was a ludicrous, terrible idea [...] I tried to think of what I would say to a hypothetical teenage daughter of mine if she came to me with the same plan. Which is when I realized that I couldn't come up with a great argument.

Like many left-leaning women, I believe in bodily autonomy and that teenage girls are too often shamed for their bodily choices by a patriarchal society. The age of consent in California is 18, but in 31 other states it's 16. Legally Abigail is around the age where she can make this kind of choice. She's old enough and of sound(ish) mind, so by my own logic, she should be able to do what she wants.

Though 44% of people think prostitution should be legal, and Abigail's own chosen charity Amnesty International voted to campaign for the decriminalization of sex work, many people struggle with the idea that someone like Abigail would engage in sex work of their own free will. 

Like Abigail's father, Saxena was initially against teen prostitution, but she "couldn't come up with a great argument" against it. And Saxena opined that since Abigail was "around" 18, "she should be able to do what she wants". And Saxena reminded us that: "[...] many people [unjustifiably] struggle with the idea that someone like Abigail would engage in sex work of their own free will." But then Saxena contradicted her entire piece by writing: "It's obvious that her plan is a bad idea." Editor?

Lastly, it's important to remind that Abigail was selling her virginity to get into a good college. To raise awareness for Amnesty International's campaign to decriminalize sex work, was secondary. Remember Abigail shared with her father:

"Well, colleges look for passion projects now, you know. It's not just about, like, GPA and being captain of volleyball." 

#collegeadmissionsscandal

Sunday, May 30, 2021

Sex Ed for Manhattan Prep Students: Masturbation & Porn Literacy for Teens

We've previously written about raunchy teen behavior at some of Manhattan's "top" schools. For example, we shared when Emily Jane Fox related in her New York Times Bestseller, Born Trump: Inside America's First Family, that Ivanka flashed a hot dog vendor from the third floor window of her Chapin 8th grade classroom. 

And we related that Tamar Lewin posted in "Teen-Agers Alter Sexual Practices, Thinking Risks Will Be Avoided" (April 5, 1997) for the New York Times that Hunter, a top high school on Manhattan's wealthy Upper East Side, provides "mint-flavored condoms with no spermicide, labeled ''ONLY for oral sex'' for the Hunter High nymphets.

Now Dana Kennedy posted for the New York Post that "Dalton parents [are] enraged over ‘masturbation’ videos for first graders" (May 29, 2021) Kennedy wrote:

Last fall, parents at the posh $55,000-per-year Dalton School got wind of their first-graders being taught sex-education lessons that included masturbation.

The Post viewed video of a cartoon Fonte used in one of her sex-ed classes for 6-year-olds showing little kids talking about “touching themselves” for pleasure.

Then the little girl character chimes in: “Sometimes, when I’m in my bath or when Mom puts me to bed, I like to touch my vulva too.”

And Kennedy reported for the New York Post that "Columbia Prep students and parents reel after class on ‘porn literacy’". Kennedy wrote:

When juniors at [Columbia Grammar & Prep School] the $47,000-a-year Manhattan school showed up for a health and sexuality workshop, most thought it was “just going to be about condoms or birth control,” a student told The Post.

Instead, it was something called “Pornography Literacy: An intersectional focus on mainstream porn,” taught by Justine Ang Fonte, who’s the director of Health & Wellness at another elite prep school, Dalton.

Fonte’s presentation, some of which was seen by The Post, included a list of the most searched pornographic terms of 2019, including “creampie,” “anal,” “gangbang,” “stepmom” and more.

One slide cited various porn genres such as “incest-themed,” consensual or “vanilla,” “barely legal,” and “kink and BDSM” (which included “waterboard electro” torture porn as an example). 

Barely legal? #pun