THE CUT’s Sex Diaries: The NY Party Girl (23), Ricky in Finance (43) and Sex Tape Fetishes

New York Magazine’s THE CUT posted: “This Week’s Sex Diary: The Party Girl Whose Date Sends Her Money and Gift Cards” (September 5, 2025)

The Party Girl is a 24-year-old New Yorker - “born and raised in the city” who has: “no money and no rich parents,” because her parents are “struggling artists”. Consequently, she’s “on a strict budget”, she tries “not to spend any money during the day,” and at night, she tries: “to get as much paid for as possible”. The Party Girl “barely” has food at home, and she can’t afford to order GrubHub, because it “will cost too much money.” Therefore, if she can’t get a free meal, she eats, like, peanut butter with “a few sticks of celery”.

The Party Girl is the co-owner, with her sister, of a beauty line. The Party Girl focuses on “relations and marketing”; thus, she keeps samples from the beauty line in her bag. She shared that being a party girl is: “conducive to getting our product in the right hands, since I go out every night.”

However, when the Party Girl goes out, unsurprisingly, she’s not strictly business. For example, at a rooftop party with an actress friend, the Party Girl met a vacationing Frenchman. After some “dancing and getting steamy”, she “pulled[ed] him into the bathroom”, where they “fuck[ed] against the door” before she had a “powerful orgasm”. However, the Party Girl, an apparent feminist: “Never got his name. Ha!”

Most relevantly for our purposes, the Party Girl is in a “situationship” with 44-year-old Ricky, whom she described as “very wealthy, actually fun, funny, [and] cool”. “He’s in finance, obviously.” They met at Soho House in Dumbo when she was 23. Of the age-gap situationship, the Party Girl shared: “Sometimes we fuck, sometimes we don’t.”

On cue, after sexual activity, Ricky sends the Party Girl gifts (e.g., $300 via Venmo, Amazon or Seamless gift cards). The Party Girl opined that Ricky sends her gifts after sex, because “he’s a nice guy.” However, she admitted that their age-gap situationship “sounds suspicious”. The Party Girl shared:

And just because he’s a nice guy, he’ll do things during the week like Venmo me a few hundred bucks or send me Amazon gift cards or Seamless gift cards. It sounds suspicious, but it’s really not. He’s rich and nice, I’m young and broke, and he’s generous to me.

The Party Girl wrote that she would like Ricky: “[...] even if he was a poor schmuck. You don’t have to believe me, but it’s true.” We believe her! Think about all the coed crushes on proletariat professors.

One afternoon, Ricky took the Party Girl “to some art-gallery-drinks thing”. “After the boring art thing,” they went to a restaurant for dirty martinis, where she kissed Ricky’s neck. Later, back at her tiny studio in Nolita, the age-gap couple had a “fun night”. They kissed, and Ricky fingered the Party Girl to orgasm. The Party Girl related:

After the boring art thing, we go to a restaurant and have dirty martinis. I’m kissing Ricky’s neck while he tells me about his ex-wife and work drama. He’s in finance, obviously. I don’t know or care who Ricky dates or fucks when we’re not hanging out. We never ask each other such questions.

Ricky drives me home, and I invite him into my tiny studio, but we’re both pretty tired. We kiss. He fingers me until I come. Then he drives away. A fun night!

On cue, the next morning, the Party Girl recieved a “massage gift certificate from Ricky” - “such a nice place, too!” To thank him, she “text[ed] him a million heart emojis.” After the massage at the “fancy spa”, where she spent “90 minutes of heaven [on earth]”, she “text[ed] Ricky a million thank-yous, which he hearts.”

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On Amazon Prime’s Cruel Intentions (2024), Caroline and Lucien, step-siblings and Manchester College students, attempted to seduce Annie - the 18-year-old freshman and daughter of the Vice President of the United States. Interestingly, Lucien had a “camera thing”. In other words, he couldn’t have sex unless he was making a sex tape; thus, every time he had sex on campus, it was recorded. (Note: Lucien shared his sex tapes with Caroline, whom masturbated in her sorority house bed while she watched her step-brother’s sex tape on her MacBook.) The Manchester College coeds whom Lucien made sex tapes with were willing sex tape participants, and, with the exception of the Vice President’s daughter, they had a disregard for whom saw the sex tapes.

This is relevant to the Party Girl, because after a “friend in PR” sent the Party Girl a “vibe” (i.e., a vibrator), “a tiny little guy”, from a company that the friend in PR represents, the Party Girl “double-lock[ed]” her doors and tried it out. Her verdict: “The vibe is a gem. I text my PR friend that I fully support her client.” Subsequently, the Party Girl filmed herself “using the new vibe”, and she sexted her Gen Z amateur porn to Dylan - a business school student whom lives in an apartment, “which is owned by his parents.”

Fascinatingly, like the Manchester College coeds, the Party Girl didn’t care if someone other than Dylan saw her sext. The Party Girl wrote:

I film myself using the new vibe and send it to Dylan. I am not worried about what Dylan will do with the vid. He can jerk off to it. Or show his friends. Who cares!

(Note: Dylan never responded to the Party Girl’s sext. Is that because receiving sexts is so common (for Dylan) that they don’t warrant a reply?)

And this is not an uncommon sentiment among Gen Z, which is a shift away from Gen X and even some Gen Y, whom are, in general, more protective over the distribution of their sexts.

For instance, on the “Spilling all of my FIRSTS” episode of the Extra Dirty podcast (June 5, 2025), a questioner wanted some advice from Hallie Batchelder, a NYC influencer with 645.6K TikTok followers and the podcast’s host, for some “extra dirty advice” about making sex tapes with three (!) of her “sneaky links” (i.e., casual sex partners). Understandably, the questioner was hesitant about making the three (!) separate sex tapes, because she had only made sex tapes in high school with her “long-term high school boyfriend”. The questioner asked Hallie: “Have you ever made a sex tape with a casual hookup?”

Hallie, who, à la the Party Girl, had a Venmo Sugar Daddy too, responded by sharing that, like Lucien, she has a sex tape problem and kink too, because she makes a sex tape with every casual hookup. Hallie opined that making a sex tape is similar to making a YouTube podcast; thus, she feels obligated to perform for the camera during casual hookups, because, to Hallie, having casual sex is almost like being on stage. Hallie said,

“Oh my god, I've made sex tapes with everyone. It's actually a problem and a kink of mine. Like, every casual hookup I've ever had, I'm, like, whip out the camera. I do have a podcast, so, like, whenever a camera is out, I feel, like, I perform. I kind of look at sex tapes the same way. It's, like, almost, like, I'm on a stage.”

Hallie said that she loves the idea that her sextapes enter the “spank bank” (i.e., saved content for masturbation), because she gets gratification from knowing that a guy is masturbating to, say, a sex tape of her oral sex performance. Hallie said,

“And I just, like, love the idea cuz, like, these are going to the spank bank. Like, these videos are going straight to the spank bank. And there's just something - a thought of a guy, like, you know, like, jerking off or whatever to, like, a sex tape of you, like, sucking them off or whatever that just makes - brings me gratification.”

In addition, Hallie shared that it’s hot to watch her performances in sextapes, because it’s similar to an athlete analyzing game film. While watching her sextapes, Hallie has fun analyzing the angles, the lighting, and assessing how she looks from the camera’s perspective. Hallie said,

“I think it's hot. Like, I think it's so hot to make a sex tape and then watch it back. Like, you know how like sports players they have like film and then like film meetings after. That's how I treat sex tapes with my casual hookups. We'll have a sex tape. We'll get all the angles, you know, maybe get a light in there. [...] I want to be filmed. I also, like, want to see what I look like from, like, a camera perspective. I think it's, like, fun. Maybe I'm just like a narcissist [...]”

However, Hallie advised that making a sex tape should happen organically.

“I wouldn't plan it. [...] No, I think it should be on a whim. Like, this is how I do it. I'll be, like, fooling around with a guy in my bed and then I'll just, like, "Oh my God, film me. This is so fun. That's so hot. And they'll always be, like, ‘Yep.’”

And Hallie warned the questioner about the possibility of sextape leaks, but Hallie said that, sometimes, like the Party Girl, she wants her casual hookups to leak her “amazing” sex tapes. Hallie said,

“But, like, sometimes I'm, like, I wish they would show their friends the amazing work that I've put into them.”

In the end, Hallie advised the questioner to have fun and make the three (!) sex tapes with her “sneaky links”, because making casual hookup sex tapes is fun and hot. Hallie advised,

“And yeah, I would just say have fun with it.”

“I would say do it. It's fun. It's hot. But at the end of the day, just like be careful [...]”

Further reading: “Influencer Hallie Batchelder: (Teen) Anal Sex and Venmo Sugar Daddies”

The OnlyFans Bop House: Teen Fangirls and a Piper Rockelle (17) Collab

We first wrote about Piper Rockelle, an influencer with over 17 million TikTok followers, four years ago, which was when Pink, the Grammy Award winning singer, opined that Piper, then-14-years-old and bikini-clad, was being exploited by Tiffany Smith - Piper's mother. In the Page Six post, “14-year-old YouTuber responds to Pink’s criticism of her bikini photos" (September 1, 2021), Chelsea Hirsch quoted Pink:

“How many kids like Piper Rockelle are being exploited by their parents? And at what point do the rest of us say … ‘this isn’t okay for a 13 yr old to be posing in a bikini whilst her MOTHER takes the photo?!?!'”

However, Hirsch related that Piper responded to Pink by stating that Tiffany didn’t force her to do anything, and Piper said that posing in bikinis was the fulfillment of her teen dreams, which her mother simply helped her to fulfill:

“The first thing I want everyone to know is that my mom doesn’t make me do anything. Quite the opposite,” Rockelle told TMZ Tuesday. “I’m a kid who had a dream, and my mom is amazing enough to help me live it out.”

“I don’t think Pink has ever seen one of my YouTube videos because if she did, she’d see it’s just my friends and me having fun and acting like ourselves,” she added. “The content we make is the kind of stuff anyone cn watch.”

Piper Rockelle and the Squad

However, in the Teen Vogue piece “Piper Rockelle Turned 18. This Birthday, She Hopes, Will Change Everything” (August 21, 2025), Fortesa Latifi wrote that after the teen influencer group “Piper Rockelle and the Squad” was disbanded, which at its height was “pulling in hundreds of thousands of dollars a month”, former members of the group accused Piper’s mother of “emotional, verbal, physical, and at times, sexual abuse.” Naturally, Piper and her mother denied the allegations, but “the lawsuit was settled in 2024 for a reported $1.85 million”.

In the People post “Tiffany Smith Allegedly Sent Underage Daughter Piper Rockelle's 'Stalker' Photos in Exchange for Gifts” (April 11, 2025), Zoey Lyttle related that in the Netflix docuseries Bad Influence: The Dark Side of Kidfluencing (2025), Heather Nichole, a former stylist for “Piper Rockelle and the Squad” and her daughter, Sophie Fergi, a former member the group, alleged that Piper’s mother stressed that Piper was “sluttier” than Sophie and, consequently, Piper needed “sluttier clothes” because, “She needs to show more.” Heather said,

"I would buy them cute little tracksuits or matching clothes. Like, [11- and 12-year-old] girl clothes," Nichole said of her shopping for [Sophie] Fergi and Rockelle, who were tweens at the time. "Tiffany would get so pissed and be like, 'Piper is not Sophie. She's sluttier. Get her sluttier clothes ... She needs to show more.'"

Unsurprisingly, Piper’s mother denied Heather’s accusations, but there were more. For example, Corinne Joy, a former member of “Piper Rockelle and the Squad,” alleged in the docuseries that Piper’s mother sold Piper’s underwear to old men, simply because, “[...] old men like to smell them.” Lyttle wrote:

Another ex-squad star, Corinne Joy, also now 17, and her mother Steevy Areeco described a disturbing interaction which allegedly took place between Smith [Piper’s mother] and the young girl [Corinne] [...]

"Corinne came home and asked me why old men like to smell underwear," the mom said in an interview for the exposé series [...] As [Corinne] Joy recalled on camera, she joined Smith to drop Rockelle off at an acting or singing lesson, then Smith and Joy went to the post office so the single parent could "drop off some things."

The young content creator continued, "[Smith] had a bag, and she pulled out what looked like Piper's underwear. I asked her, 'Why are you shipping those out?' And she told me that old men like to smell them. And I was like, 'What is she talking about?' "

And mothers of former members of “Piper Rockelle and the Squad” alleged that Piper’s mother exchanged exclusive pictures of then-10-year-old Piper with a man, and Piper’s mother allegedly allowed Piper to flirt with the man on the phone in exchange for “extravagant gifts” like Gucci bags, hoverboards, and iPhones. Lyttle wrote:

In another part of the docuseries, former squad moms [...] detailed Smith's interactions with an anonymous fan. He was a man, but online he went by the name Megan and often sent extravagant gifts to then-10-year-old Rockelle and her mother.

Smith allegedly told Nichole, "You can get stuff too if you send him pictures [...]”

In the docuseries, Joy added that Smith would regularly tell her daughter that Megan was on the phone, and [Piper] Rockelle would join the call to say hi to her fan.

"Just by flirting and sending him photos, Tiffany got herself a Gucci bag from Megan, Piper got a Gucci bag, all these outlandish gifts," said Nichole. Fergi added that Megan sent brand new computers, cameras, camera lenses, microphones, hoverboards and iPhones. "Anything that you could think of that Piper wanted, she got from Megan," said Fergi.

Piper Rockelle Celebrated Turning 18

Once again, Piper and her mother denied all of the allegations that were alleged in the docuseries, but Piper, who turned 18 on August 21, 2025, is, unsurprisingly, still surrounded by controversy. 

About six months before she turned 18, Piper visited the Bop House, which is an OnlyFans content creator collective. Thereby, Piper teased that she would follow Sami Sheen (i.e., the daughter of Denise Richards and Charlie Sheen), Danielle “Bhad Bhabie” Bregoli, and Tay “Lil Tay” Tian, whom all joined OnlyFans upon turning 18 and quickly earned millions. 

In the post on People, “YouTuber Piper Rockelle, 17, Responds to Backlash About Collabing with OnlyFans Creators at Bop House” (February 26, 2025), Victoria Edel posted: 

Piper Rockelle is reacting to online criticism after she visited TikTok’s Bop House.

The 17-year-old [...] recently received backlash after she visited Bop House and filmed videos with some of the residents. The women who live in the house (which has 3 million TikTok followers of its own) primarily make content for OnlyFans.

After posting a number of videos with the creators, [Piper] Rockelle, who describes herself online as an actress/dancer/singer, reacted to the online criticism in a TikTok posted on Feb. 24. Over footage of herself, she wrote, “How many times are they going to cry [about] me being in the bop house.” She then pretended to cry while some of the Bop House creators joined her to dance.

The Bop House and Piper (17) Collab 

Edel wrote that to promote Piper’s visit, Sophie Rain, the 20-year-old co-founder of the Bop House, posted a video with Piper. Of course, Piper posted a video of her visit with the young OnlyFan influencers as well. And Piper shared that she was "so grateful for the opportunity to collab with the Bop House creators." 

Unsurprisingly, Piper isn’t the only teen girl who is attracted to the Bop House influencers and OnlyFans content creators. In the Vulture\New York Magazine piece “They Make Millions Acting Like Sexy Babies” (Aug. 21, 2025), Rebecca Jennings wrote that:

On a hot July evening in Miami, Julia Filippo and Camilla Araújo [two 23-year-old Bop House members] are on their hands and knees on the floor of a Target, hands gripping the dirty linoleum in full view of the employees [...] Araújo, who looks strikingly like a younger Katy Perry as she maintains a push-up position, while Filippo, [is] blonde, tan, and tiny [...] They’re trying to re-create a viral video [...] 

Two high-school-age girls start to trail behind us, nudging each other and giggling [...] It takes them at least ten minutes to work up the courage to ask for a photo, which Araújo and Filippo pose for happily [...]

After stating the obvious that “OnlyFans, [is] a platform best known for porn,” and relating that the Bop House name was “derived from a social-media slang term for ‘slut’”, Jennings wrote that Camilla shared that 69% of her followers and fans are female and Joy Mei, another Bop House member and OnlyFans content creator, shared that 50% of her social media followers and fans are (young) women and “cute” girls, whom she loves so much. Joy, who made $100,000 in one month on OnlyFans, admitted, 

“It’s a lot of girls, I’m not gonna lie. I feel like a lot of girls come up to me, and I’m just like, ‘Wow, I love you guys so much, you guys are so cute.’”

After Target, the Bop House members went to a café for “strawberry-matcha iced lattes,” where women took “sneaky” photos of the OnlyFans content creators and a mother asked for a photo with her three “cute” pre-teen daughters and Julia Filippo and Camilla Araújo. Jennings wrote:

After the Target run, the gang grabs strawberry-matcha iced lattes at a café a few minutes away. As they enter, a handful of patrons immediately do the thing everyone does when there are famous people present, which is to take photos [...] a mother and three girls, two around middle-school age and a younger sister no more than 8 or 9 [are present]. As the group gets up to leave, the mother approaches our table to ask for a photo. The three girls pose with [Camilla] Araújo and [Julia] Filippo, looking simultaneously sheepish and thrilled [...] As they leave, Araújo looks back at them as if she almost can’t believe it, shrieking, “You’re so cute!”

The Bop House Influencers in Pokémon Slippers

Interestingly, the subtitle for Jennings’ Vulture feature is “How the Bop House, an OnlyFans influencer group, conjures a fantasy of young girls having a horny sleepover.” Jennings wrote that the Bop House members conjure the  schoolgirl sleepover fantasy by wearing braces, girlish rompers, midriff-baring cartoon pajamas, onesie pajamas, and Pokémon slippers. And for emphasis, they use cartoon sound effects in their videos. Jennings wrote:

Several members even wear braces, which they claim are orthodontic necessities. In loosely choreographed TikTok dances, they wear matching snug leotards, girlish rompers, curve-hugging Skims maxi dresses, and midriff-baring cartoon pajamas [...] The audio in many of their videos is essentially cartoon sound effects, and much of what happens in them emphasizes their youth, from wearing Pokémon slippers and jumping on couches to feeding each other lollipops [...] Paired with onesie pajamas, e-girl makeup on an already young-looking face [...]

Jennings wrote that, consequently, the Bop House has been accused of “grooming”. In other words, the Bop House has been accused of: “the deliberate marketing of youthful personas for adult content [that] is creating a demand for barely legal performers.”

In addition, Jennings wrote that the Bop House has been accused of creating content for pedophiles, but that’s a mistake, because pedophiles are attracted to pre-pubescent girls. Jennings must have meant to write that the Bop House has been accused of creating content for hebophiles (i.e., men who are sexually attracted to pubescent girls typically between the ages 11and 14) and ephebophiles (i.e., men who are sexually attracted to pubescent girls typically between the ages 15 and 19). Furthermore, Julia even admitted to Jennings that she “blew up” on OnlyFans, because “men love” her innocent appearance, which we can infer from Jennings was intentionally enhanced. 

“That’s how I blew up, because men loved how innocent I looked,” says [Julia] Filippo.

Relatedly, in a viral video, Camilla asked Julia how much money she made in her first week on OnlyFans. After Julia shared that she made a whopping $54,000, Camilla opined that it was, “[...] ’cause she looks 12.” 

In the end, Jennings wrote: “Though none of the Bop House members I spoke to admitted to deliberately making themselves appear younger, it would be naïve to assume they don’t know the power it has given them.” And it would be “naïve to assume” that Piper’s mother didn’t “know the power” that Piper possessed. 

Of course, Piper’s mother isn’t the first or last mother to exploit her daughter’s power. Take Demi Moore, who, per Wikipedia, in 1995 was the world's highest-paid actress. Demi shared in her memoir, Inside Out, that when she was 15, her (alcoholic) mother paraded her in bars. Consequently, unable to resist the allure of a nymphet, an approximately 48-year-old wealthy Greek man paid Demi's mother $500 for sex with the future film star. Afterwards, the Greek asked Demi, "How does it feel to be whored out [by your mother] for $500?"

From the NY TIMES to Netflix: Schoolgirl Sleepover Sex Stories (Part 4): Camp Cabins

Lolita (Italian translation)

In Lolita (Vintage Books\Random House, 1991), Lolita confessed to Humbert that she had pre-teen “sapphic diversions” with Elizabeth Talbot - Lolita’s tent-mate at summer camp. Nabokov wrote:

Her astounding tale started with an introductory mention of her tent-mate of the previous summer, at another camp, a “very select” one as she put it. That tent-mate (“quite a derelict character,” “half-crazy,” but a “swell kid”) instructed her in various manipulations. At first, loyal Lo refused to tell me her name.

“Well,” she said. “[...] her name was Elizabeth Talbot, she goes now to a swanky private school, her father is an executive.”

I recalled with a funny pang the frequency with which poor Charlotte [Lolita’s mother] used to introduce into party chat such elegant tidbits as “when my daughter was out hiking last year with the Talbot girl.”

I wanted to know if either mother learned of those sapphic diversions.

“Gosh no,” exhaled limp Lo mimicking dread and relief, pressing a falsely fluttering hand to her chest.

Hence, in addition to bedrooms, hotel rooms, and prep school dorm rooms, schoolgirl sleepover sex happens in camp cabins as well. For example, on the “Postcards from Europe” episode of the Hot Girl Talks podcast (Aug 18, 22 [YouTube]), Carly Weinstein, an influencer with 175K Instagram (IG) followers, informed her co-hosts, Halley Kate (246K IG followers) and Jazmyn “Jaz” Smith (147K IG followers), that part of going to summer camp is seeing “plenty of vaginas” “inside of them” “all sides of them”. Carly,

“If you went to camp, you’d know that you saw plenty of vaginas in a lifetime and probably the inside of them. And probably all sides of them. Because at camp, you just are, like, crazy. It’s just a thing. I don’t know, like, people who went to camp know. Just camp things.”

In “Reality Check From Young Voices”, a chapter in Katie Cappiello and Meg McInerney’s Slut: A Play and Guidebook for Combating Sexism and Sexual Violence (The Feminist Press at CUNY, 2015), 17-year-old Danielle confessed that “lots of sexual firsts” happened at her “typical Jewish summer camp” like the filming (oral) sex tapes. Danielle shared:

“I go to this typical Jewish summer camp, where promiscuous behavior is practically encouraged and cultivated [...] with no parental supervision, there are lots of sexual firsts for everyone [...] There is one girl in particular, Georgia, who is really petite and very pretty [...] Josh and another boy coerced - basically forced - Georgia to give them blow jobs, while others filmed it on their phones.”

In Not That Kind of Girl, Lena Dunham shared that when she was a teen camper, she could not stop staring at her summer camp counselor’s “tits”. Lena wrote:

[...] [I] couldn't stop eyeing everyone else, staring at their round asses as they dressed, the dusky hairs emerging from the bathing suits. “You are so bicurious!” Lena's camp counselor said after she caught Lena: “[...] watching her tits swing as she changed.”

The following summer, then-14-year-old Lena found her “truest love”. “[Johnny] was blond, from South Carolina, and just shy of twenty-two.” In her bunk, Lena fantasized about discarding her: “[...] clothes, approaching Johnny, and letting him put his hands all over [...]” her body.

On the “They’re Just Not That Into You...” episode of the Hot Girls Talk podcast (August 4, 22 [YouTube]), Halley shared with Carly and Jaz: “You can also pop your cherry [i.e., have an orgasm] by riding a fucking horse. One of my friends […] she literally told all of us when we were like 9-years-old, ‘Yeah, I popped my cherry by riding this horse.’”

For The Cut’s 2014 Summer Sex Week feature, Maureen O'Connor posted, in the True Stories section, “10 Awkward, Nostalgic Stories of Summer-Camp Sexual Awakenings” (July 7, 2014). The piece related: “ten people’s most vivid memories of summer-camp sex — and sex gone awry, and confused preteen discoveries, and other strangely nostalgic humiliations.”

In the first memory, “Fake Orgasms Sweep Horse Camp”, readers learned about “horsegasms”, which was when a Camp Rim Rock horseback rider had an orgasm via a horse. The quest to have horsegasms arose after Lauren Petersen, the “alpha girl” of the cabin and a New Yorker, shared with her cabin mates that she was getting: “‘tickling feelings’ while grinding on a Western saddle.” Consequently, Lauren’s cabin mates, including the then-11-year-old storyteller, went on a “craze[d]” quest to have a horsegasm.

When I was 11, there was a fake-orgasm craze at Camp Rim Rock’s horseback riding camp for girls. It started when Lauren Petersen asked if anyone else had “tickling feelings” while grinding on a Western saddle. Lauren was the alpha girl of my cabin. She was cool and tough and came from New York and had a Beastie Boys cassette [...] If Lauren Petersen felt tickles on horses, then feeling tickles on horses was cool. Soon everyone was feeling tickles, or trying to feel them, or faking them. It was like the Salem Witch Trials. I will never say whether my horsegasms were fake.

Cruel Intentions 2: Manchester Prep (2000)

On a related note: On episode 06 of Amazon Prime’s Cruel Intentions (2024), streamers learned from Cece that years before she matriculated at Manchester College, she broke her hymen on a “Gorgeous palomino named Lucky.” Cece’s confession may have been inspired by Cruel Intentions 2: Manchester Prep (2000) where Cherie Claymon, a freshman at Manchester Prep, was forced to have a horsegasm while posting in Central Park, which was all part of a plot by Kathryn, an upperclassman, to turn Cherie into the "premier slut of Manchester Prep." Kathryn commanded Cherie, “Up and down. Back and forth. Faster! Faster!” And Kathryn asked Cherie, “How does that feel?”

In “Sexual Shaving Rituals”, a submitter submitted that, as a form of seduction, she and her then-12-year-old cabin mates used to shave their legs in the open on the campgrounds. But when she was 13, as a form of seduction, a 16-year-old female camp counselor asked the 13-year-old and another camper to shave her vagina. Outside. On the porch of their cabin!

We always shaved our 12-year-old legs outside, where the boys could see, sitting on towels spread over the pavement that connected the girls’ camp to the boys’ camp. When I was 13, my counselor got me and another camper to shave her vag before she met up with her boyfriend. We did it outside on the porch, her lying down and us on either side of her, giggling.

In addition, the teen exhibitionist counselor used to tell sex stories in the cabin. In a bit of S&M, the teen sadist “dared” the girls to put Gold Bond on their vaginas. (One can safely infer that the counselor (regularly) found pleasure in putting Gold Bond on her vagina; hence, the referral.) Although she was straight, the counselor got a “perverse kick out of it”. And after the counselor discovered that the submitter’s “prepubescent tits” were being pawed behind the bunk bed, the counselor gave the camper comforting advice.

She was 16 and told us all her sex stories. She once dared several girls in my bunk to put Gold Bond on our vaginas. It was so cold that it stung, and I experienced a kind of sensitivity generally reserved for varsity S&M games. I think the counselor got a perverse kick out of it, even though she is straight. She is now a wedding planner.

Still, she gave me some good advice: When my prepubescent tits were getting squeezed like tiny stress balls during make-outs behind the bunk, my counselor said I should tell the boys, “Be gentle.”

In “The Girl Who Discovered Orgasms”, in a bit of a sleepover cabin sex plot twist, a submitter admitted that she had sex with the cabin! And, consequently, she had her first orgasm. "

I had my first orgasm at Jewish summer camp, the result of dry-humping against a cabin.

But someone must have seen her “dry-humping against a cabin”. Right? Subsequently, she lost her virginity at camp a few years later, and to commemorate the occasion, she had five orgasms that night, including one in the cabin’s shower.

A few years later, I lost my virginity at a summer camp on a kibbutz. I had sex five times that night, including in the shower, and came every time! Talk about getting off to a good (blessed?) start.

Liara Roux shared in her memoir, Whore of New York: A Confession (Repeater Books, 2021), that while 5th graders, she and the "very beautiful" Melissa had girl-on-girl sex at camp in the woods of the Catskills where they kissed, Liara put her breast in Melissa’s mouth, and Melissa put her finger into Liara. Roux wrote:

One day, when we were walking to whatever activity was next, she asked me if I wanted to skip it [...] As we got further away from the camp, she stepped off the trail. I followed her. We wandered through the trees, and I tripped over a rock hidden under the snow.

We got to a clearing and she plopped on the ground, then started making a snow angel. “What about your pants?” I asked. “Won’t they get wet?” [...] “They already are.” I blushed at the implication. Seeing my flushed face, she stood up, walked to me, and kissed me [...] I couldn’t hold myself back. I kissed her, putting my hands around her neck, pulling her in.

[...] I pressed myself against her and we fell in the snow [...] I rolled on top of her, kissed her again [...] She wiggled, unzipping her coat, unzipping mine, and our hands were on each other’s chests, grasping at softness. I kissed her neck; she moaned and put my breast in her mouth [...] After much maneuvering, she pulled off her glove and stuck her hand down my pants. The chill of her fingertips pressing into me.

We walked back to camp, our faces flushed.

And Lindsay shared with Vera Papisova in the Teen Vogue piece "23 Masturbation Stories: Girls Get Real About Self-Love" (AUGUST 4, 2020), which is a compilation of preteen and teen masturbation stories, that she had a "freaky camp friend" who indulged in self-love. Lindsey enjoyed masturbating at camp too, but she only wished that she had known that, besides her "freaky camp friend", other girls masturbated too. Lindsay shared:

"I wish I knew that other girls masturbate, too! And that no matter what way you do it, it's not weird! Most girls don't open up to their friends about that stuff until college, unless you have the occasional freaky camp friend." - Lindsay

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Famous Age-Gap Affair: Robert F. Kennedy Jr. (70) and Olivia Nuzzi (30) | Age-Gap FaceTime Sex

Olivia Nuzzi and Robert F. Kennedy Jr.

Dylan Byers aggregated in the Puck post, “We Need to Talk About Olivia & Ryan” (September 20, 2024), that: “[...] Olivia Nuzzi [31], the magazine’s star political reporter, had been suspended from New York [Magazine] due to a “personal relationship” with her former profile subject Robert F. Kennedy Jr. [70] [...]”

Per New York: “Nuzzi’s relationship with Kennedy was “a violation of the magazine’s standards around conflicts of interest and disclosures”.

What standards were violated? Corbin Bolies posted on The Daily Beast that “Married RFK Jr., 70, Bragged He Had ‘Intimate’ Photos of Reporter Olivia Nuzzi, 31” (09.21.24) That’s correct. Nuzzi sexted RFK Jr..

And The Daily Beast and Oli Coleman posted that: “RFK Jr. and star journalist Olivia Nuzzi had 'incredible' FaceTime sex, said they loved each other [...]” (Page Six | September 27, 2024)

In the post, Coleman related that 30-year-old Nuzzi quickly fell madly in love with the married 70-year-old RFK Jr.! Subsequently, the age-gap couple sexted and had “incredible” FaceTime sex - for almost a year. Nuzzi even shared with friends that 70-year-old RFK Jr had “impressive [virtual] sexual stamina”.

[...] Page Six has learned that Robert F. Kennedy Jr. and New York Magazine scribe Olivia Nuzzi had “incredible” FaceTime sex.

But — after they began talking over text — he “love bombed” her, and she quickly fell so madly in love with him that she lived a double life for nearly a year, sharing long calls, endless texts and virtual sex with the former presidential candidate, all while engaged to her partner of almost a decade.

They had “incredible” sex over FaceTime, according to another source, with Nuzzi noting to pals that the 70-year-old had impressive sexual stamina.

Surprisingly, RFK Jr. remains married to Cheryl Hines of Curb Your Enthusiasm fame, but, unsurprisingly, Nuzzi is no longer engaged to Ryan Lizza - Politico’s chief Washington correspondent. 

Childhood? Vaping Tweens and Teens in Crop Tops, Thongs and Makeup

The kicker for "Being 13", Jessica Bennett's New York Times post (Sept. 20, 2023), serves as a good synopsis of the piece:

Three girls, one year. This is what it’s like to be 13 today, in a world that can’t stop talking about the dire state of your future.

One of the girls Bennett profiled was Anna - a 13-year-old 8th grader at a top-ranked charter school in Colorado. 

Anna reminded us of Mare of HBO's Mare of Easttown. After Mare discovered that Erin, a teen, had a secret account on Sidedoor's escort service, Mare said, "Trust me. Teenage girls are fucking sneaky."

In terms of sneaky teens, after Anna complained to her mom, via text, about being the only member of her 8th grade friend group who wasn't allowed to wear thongs and crop tops, Anna: 

"[...] went to Victoria’s Secret with her friends and bought the [thong] underwear anyway, then hid them in her room."

(In addition, Bennett shared that Anna's parents had discovered, via Anna's iPhone, that 13-year-old Anna had been sneaking to her boyfriend's house, conveniently, when his parents weren't home, which reminded me of 17-year-old Lily of HBO's And Just Like That whom lost her virginity in her boyfriend's house, conveniently, when his parents weren't home.)

In terms of tweens in crop tops, Anna’s mother may not condone it, but 11-year-old Maxwell’s mother, Jessica Simpson, condones it; however, some of Simpson’s followers condemned Maxwell’s crop top. 

Leah Bitsky reported for Page Six that “Jessica Simpson [was] slammed for letting 11-year-old daughter, Maxwell, wear crop top” (August 28, 2023)

Bitsky reported that after Simpson posted pictures on Instagram of 11-year-old Maxwell posing seductively (i.e., tongue out) in a crop top, one of Simpon’s followers posted: “Isn’t she like 11 or something?? Stop sexualizing your little girl” But Bitsky related that another follower defended Maxwell’s tween crop top by posting: “So many Karens here geez! No 11 year old looks like an 11 yr old today. We’re not in the Brady Bunch years anymore, she looks fine [...]!” 

Yet, none of Simpson’s followers addressed designers like Marc Jacobs whom designed crop tops for tweens and teens. For example, we posted that Brooke Frischer posted on Fashionista that "Heaven [by Marc Jacobs] and Bluemarine Made the High School Movie Wardrobe of Your Dreams a Reality" (JUL 7, 2023).

Per Frischer, Blumarine by Marc Jacobs features 11 of the brands best-selling pieces, which boast the brands "signature touches". The best-selling signature pieces consist of ultra-mini skirts, and they mean ultra, lacy pink camisoles, baby tees, and they mean baby, and cropped sweatshirts - among other revealing pieces. 

In terms of thongs, we wrote in our substack “From the 1939 World's Fair to TikTok: A History of Teen Thongs” that Ariel Levy wrote in Female Chauvinist Pigs: Women and the Rise of Raunch Culture (Free Press, 2005) that the thong was invented in New York City to "cover" exotic dancers during the 1939 World's Fair but that thongs are no longer relegated to exotic dancers but that thongs, like Hello Kitty and Abercrombie & Fitch, have become the "underpants of choice" for nymphets:

Now they are the underpants of choice for pubescent girls. I saw Hello Kitty thongs for sale at the mall; Abercrombie & Fitch—which markets to seven- to fourteen-year-olds—makes a thong that says WINK WINK and another that declares EYE CANDY; the teen chain store Hot Topic sells a Cat in the Hat thong; Delia’s has a little cotton thong with Bart Simpson on the front and another that asks FEELING LUCKY? with a green four-leaf clover stamped on the crotch. The urban youth Web site Dr. Jay’s has rhinestone Playboy bunny thongs with matching camisoles. 

In addition, we related that there’s a plethora of dancing teens in (cheeky) thongs on TikTok; thus, it should not be surprising that Anna was the only 8th grader in her friend group who didn’t wear thongs. 

And while we’re on the topic of tweens in crop tops and thongs, it’s worth re-mentioning Rachel Brown’s post on Beauty Independent that “Evereden Is Positioning Itself To Lead The Race For Gen Alpha Consumers” (September 12, 2023) In other words, Evereden is selling makeup to 13-and-under-year-olds. And it states in the piece’s kicker that Evereden is: “[...] encouraging gen alpha consumers to play with beauty products [...]” 

EverEden: Kids

And why is Evereden selling makeup, like Ruby Red Lip Oil, to 13-year-olds? It’s for the same reason that Marc Jacobs is designing crop tops to teens and Abercrombie & Fitch was selling thongs to tweens. #money And notice that the brown tween in the Evereden advertisement (above) is dressed, à la Blumarine by Marc Jacobs, in a crop top and mini skirt.

Lastly, if adults wear crop tops, thongs and makeup, one should not be surprised to see tweens and teens in crop tops, thongs and makeup, because as Neil Postman reminded in The Disappearance of Childhood (Vintage/Random House, 1994), as recently as two hundred years ago, the concept of childhood did not exist and that it originated during the Renaissance with the invention of the printing press, which initiated a separation between children and adults with the bridge from childhood to adulthood being only crossed by learning how to read. 

In addition, Jennifer Senior related in her piece "Little Grown-ups and Their Progeny" (April 8, 2013), which was part of the New York magazine cover story "Childhood in New York", that up until the end of the WWII, children were expected to contribute to the family financially. Particular to New York City, newsboys were rampant, but delivering newspapers wasn’t their only source of income. They: “[…] blacked boots, scavenged for junk, and shuttled messages and goods.” But: “[...] child poverty, child abuse, and exploitative labor practices […]” lead to an effort by reformers and the government (e.g. Children’s Bureau) to protect children.

However, Steven Mintz, the author of Huck’s Raft: A History of Childhood in America (Belknap Press\Harvard University Press, 2006), wrote that, “They [reformers and the government] viewed kids smoking at 10 and 12 and having independent money and walking into bars as the worst thing in the world. It reminds you that "child" is a label, not a reality."

And just like Postman related in The Disappearance of Childhood, things have gone full circle. The separation that resulted from the printing press and the Children’s Bureau has been seemingly removed by smartphones and social media. Consequently, we shouldn’t be surprised to see a 13-year-old nymphet in a crop top and micro mini skirt that barely covers her thong with a vape between her Ruby Red lips.