Saturday, July 29, 2017

The Link Between Incest, Teen Sexual Abuse & Lesbianism

Barret related in her book Invisible Lives that Sarah Pearlman, a therapist based in Boston, said, “In clinical practice you see a higher incidence of [sexual] abuse and incest among lesbians.”

According to Loise Kaplan Pd.D, a New York City based psychoanalyst and author of the book Female Perversions, in approximately 98% of cases of incest, the father sexually molested the young daughter. Moreover, as Joan J. Johnson shared in Teen Prostitution, the incest could have involved the step-father, brother, uncle, cousin or grandfather. 

Although every victim of incest is not a female, according to the book Juveniles in Prostitution: Fact vs. Fiction, seven out of every eight victims of incest are females. 

And the reported numbers are unbelievable. Kincaid wrote in Erotic Innocence: The Culture of Child Molesting that Kahr reported in "The Sexual Molestation of Children: Historical Perspectives" that was printed in the Journal of Psychohistory 19 (1992): 193: 
"[...] in Berlin the molestation rate among contemporary schoolchildren is 80 percent, and in England 90 of women reported childhood sexual abuse." Faller's wrote in her Department of Health and Human Services report, Child Sexual Abuse: Intervention and Treatment Issues, that up to 62% of American girls were sexually abused.

Ellen DeGeneres

Despite the fact that it is uncommon for sexually abused victims to reveal their abuse, some lesbian celebrities have confessed to being molested. 

People magazine reported that Ellen DeGeneres shared that she was molested by her mother's third husband while DeGeneres’ mother was in the hospital for a mastectomy. Ironically, the abuse started under the guise of giving Ellen a breast exam. 

Anne Heche

Anne Heche, who had a four-year lesbian relationship Ellen DeGeneres, wrote in her memoir, Call Me Crazy, that she was sexually abused by Donald Heche - her father.  She wrote, "He raped me [...] he fondled me, he put me on all fours and had sex with me." 

Rosie O`Donnell

Rosie O`Donnell shared on the Howard Stern Sirius XM satellite radio show that her father began molesting her at the age of six. 

Virginia Wolf

And per the book Secret Lives of Great Authors, Virginia Wolf was molested by her step-brother.

Marie Osmond 

On The Talk, Marie Osmond (openly) made a connection between sexual abuse and lesbianism. Osmond confessed that after being sexual abused at ≈ 8-years-old, she thought that she was a lesbian: 
"When I was about eight or nine, I actually thought I was gay. The reason is because I had been sexually abused to the point that men made me sick. I didn't trust them, I didn't like them. I was looking at women and I thought 'why am I looking at women? I must be gay.'"
Miley Cyrus

Osmond was responding to Miley Cyrus' Instagram Live statements where Cyrus implied to her followers that she was a gay because of failed relationships with men: 

“There are good men out there guys, don’t give up.”

“You don’t have to be gay,” she added as Simpson used the heart eye filter on his screen. “There are good people with d— out there, you just gotta find them. You gotta find a d— that’s not a d—, you know what I mean?”

Unsurprisingly, Dwight Garner wrote in his New York Times' review of The Incest Diary
"You can’t swing an umbrella in the celebrity memoir section of your local Books-A-Million without hitting one that recounts sexual abuse at the hands of a father, a brother, an uncle or a stepfather. Incest is a fact in many lives; it must be written about."
Ironically, according to Nancy Friday's My Secret Garden: Women’s Sexual Fantasies some women fantasize about being raped. For example:
Gail was almost raped in her boyfriend’s best friend's car when she was a nymphet, now that she is an adult, she "frequently" fantasizes about being raped.

Stephanie fantasizes about very young girls being raped "by a mad professor" who decides whom he was going to rape by examining "their sexual apparatus". 

When Alison was fourteen, she had an "unusual relationship with a close girlfriend." For example, Alison's girlfriend would dress her in a sexy bikini made of chiffon scarves, before she pretended that she was a "rowdy seaman" and raped Allison. 

And since Bella was eight-years-old, her father had always been her "fantasy lover during masturbation".

And just as unsurprisingly, the allure of nymphet rapes slash incest is used as entertainment to sell books and stream movies. For example, Orgy Maid by Robert Silverberg, Don Elliott (pseud.) is yet another example of art imitating life. In the novella, while her husband is away completing his third year at Yale, 12-year-old Lonnie Garth, who is described as being five-feet-five with honey blonde hair and big blue eyes, is continuously raped by her brother-in-laws; sometimes one at time and at other times, simultaneously via double penetration. (Lonnie's drunken father-in-law forced himself upon her as well.) 

Eventually, just like a number of women confessed to in The Secret Garden, Lonnie fantasized about being raped by her brother-in-law. For example, in the novella it states: "[...] deep down, she had wanted to be raped by Gary Holston, she had wanted to be known by some man not her husband, somebody with Gary's elemental ferocity and force."

Consequently, 12-year-old Lonnie even began to relish lipstick lesbian sex after her brother-in-laws forced her to have sex with a "slim, sixteen-year-old redhead named Peg Marron" who had "[...] lavishly voluptuous buttocks of a Rubens nude".

Orgy Maid is considered by some to be in the vintage sleaze genre, but the author, Brooklyn born and Ivy League graduate (B.A. in English Literature from Columbia), Robert Silverberg, is a multiple winner of the Hugo and Nebula Awards. 

And staying in the "art imitating life" motif, here's the description posted on IMDB for the film Daddy, Darling (1970):
A young Danish girl (Helli Louise) seduces everything in sight after daddy (Ole Wisborg) refuses her naughty come-ons. She'll have a lesbian affair with her teacher, pretend that her teenage boyfriend is dear old dad and finally get to her stepmother (Gio Petre)

The IMDB description for Wicked (1998) states: 
"14-year-old Ellie Christianson (Julia Stiles) wants to make her father Ben her love partner. And when her mother Karen turns up dead, Ellie has a good opportunity."

And here's the IMDB summary written by Claudio Carvalho for Mimi (1979) [Italian: Un dramma borghese]
The fifteen year-old Maria "Mimmina" Luiza leaves the boarding school in Genève to stay in the Bechten Hotel nursing her father, the widower writer Guido [...] Along the days, Guido recovers from his illness and Mimmina has a crush on him and tries to seduce her own father. When her roommate and best friend Therese [...] comes to the hotel to visit Mimmina, she has a love affair with Guido with tragic consequences.

Interestingly, Charles Casillo shared in Marilyn Monroe: The Private Life of a Public Icon that Marilyn Monroe confessed that she wanted to: "[...] put on a black wig, pick up her father in a bar and make love to him."

I Love Dick (s01e03)

On Amazon's I Love Dick (s01e03), Toby visits Devon to apologize for getting her fired. Previously, we posted that Toby was a nymphet when she was "touched" by her father and began watching pornography. Thus, it's no surprise that she referred to Devon, a butch lesbian, as "Daddy" before she said, “I want to suck your big cock.” (As of episode 4, the I Love Dick writers hadn't revealed Devon sexual history.)

Unfortunately, it is well-known that nymphets are sexually abused by non-relatives as well. For example, The Guardian reported that US soldiers [allegedly] raped fifty-four Colombian nymphets and The Telegraph reported that 15-year-old Emanuela Orlandi was allegedly the victim of a Vatican sex party.

Lastly, the majority of lesbians, not lipstick lesbians, but homosexuals - both female and male were sexually abused as children. (Note: We're not implying that sexual abuse leads to or causes homosexuality. We're only sharing that there's a prolific and strong link between child sexual abuse and homosexuality.) And as we wrote earlier, the abusers are often close relatives. 

Thus, there are at least three types of men in relationship to hebephilia\ephebophilia:
  1. Inactive hebephiles\ephebophile
  2. Active hebephiles\ephebophile who have lawful consensual relationships with nymphets e.g., marriage
  3. Active hebephiles\ephebophile who have unlawful consensual and non-consensual relationships with nymphets e.g., (secular) [statutory] rape and incest

Friday, July 14, 2017

Telemundo's CASO CERRADO: Latina Teen Young\Old Sexual Affair

Amanda                                       50

16-year-old teleiophile Amanda appeared on Telemundo's Caso Cerrado, because she wanted to be emancipated from her father so that she could be free to marry 50-year-old Santiago.  

Amanda shared with the judge that she has been very mature since the age of ten and that she wanted to marry Santiago because of his personality, the way he treated her, and because he was different than the boys her age.

Amanda said, "His personality, his way of being [and] the way he treated me. It wasn't the same as boys my age who only wanted one thing. I don't know. They're immature."

However, Joel, Amanda's father and a former long-time friend of Santiago, opined of Santiago, "He's a pedophile who's brainwashing her!"
Amanda replied emphatically, "Not true!"

Amanda shared that she and Santiago had kissed but had never had sex. (Despite Santiago's disability, he's fully functional sexually.) However, Jonhy, Santiago's son and Amanda's video game obsessed former boyfriend, claimed that he caught the age-gap couple fully nude and frolicking on the bed. 

Interestingly, before the judge gave her verdict she said, "But look. Woody Allen is still married to the girl who used to be his step-daughter. They've been together for years."

However, Dr. Hernandez, a psychologist, opined that Amanda was being "blinded" by Santiago's maturity - just like schoolgirls who fall in love with their male teachers. She said that their age-gap marriage would "never last", that it would be "very short", and that it was based on "infatuation - not love".

In the end, the judge ruled that Amanda could not be emancipated from her father, but that she should keep Santiago as a "father-boyfriend" until she turns 18. She ended her verdict by sharing, "However, I find it to be a nice love story. I truly do."