New York Magazine’s THE CUT posted: “This Week’s Sex Diary: The Party Girl Whose Date Sends Her Money and Gift Cards” (September 5, 2025)
The Party Girl is a 24-year-old New Yorker - “born and raised in the city” who has: “no money and no rich parents,” because her parents are “struggling artists”. Consequently, she’s “on a strict budget”, she tries “not to spend any money during the day,” and at night, she tries: “to get as much paid for as possible”. The Party Girl “barely” has food at home, and she can’t afford to order GrubHub, because it “will cost too much money.” Therefore, if she can’t get a free meal, she eats, like, peanut butter with “a few sticks of celery”.
The Party Girl is the co-owner, with her sister, of a beauty line. The Party Girl focuses on “relations and marketing”; thus, she keeps samples from the beauty line in her bag. She shared that being a party girl is: “conducive to getting our product in the right hands, since I go out every night.”
However, when the Party Girl goes out, unsurprisingly, she’s not strictly business. For example, at a rooftop party with an actress friend, the Party Girl met a vacationing Frenchman. After some “dancing and getting steamy”, she “pulled[ed] him into the bathroom”, where they “fuck[ed] against the door” before she had a “powerful orgasm”. However, the Party Girl, an apparent feminist: “Never got his name. Ha!”
Most relevantly for our purposes, the Party Girl is in a “situationship” with 44-year-old Ricky, whom she described as “very wealthy, actually fun, funny, [and] cool”. “He’s in finance, obviously.” They met at Soho House in Dumbo when she was 23. Of the age-gap situationship, the Party Girl shared: “Sometimes we fuck, sometimes we don’t.”
On cue, after sexual activity, Ricky sends the Party Girl gifts (e.g., $300 via Venmo, Amazon or Seamless gift cards). The Party Girl opined that Ricky sends her gifts after sex, because “he’s a nice guy.” However, she admitted that their age-gap situationship “sounds suspicious”. The Party Girl shared:
And just because he’s a nice guy, he’ll do things during the week like Venmo me a few hundred bucks or send me Amazon gift cards or Seamless gift cards. It sounds suspicious, but it’s really not. He’s rich and nice, I’m young and broke, and he’s generous to me.
The Party Girl wrote that she would like Ricky: “[...] even if he was a poor schmuck. You don’t have to believe me, but it’s true.” We believe her! Think about all the coed crushes on proletariat professors.
One afternoon, Ricky took the Party Girl “to some art-gallery-drinks thing”. “After the boring art thing,” they went to a restaurant for dirty martinis, where she kissed Ricky’s neck. Later, back at her tiny studio in Nolita, the age-gap couple had a “fun night”. They kissed, and Ricky fingered the Party Girl to orgasm. The Party Girl related:
After the boring art thing, we go to a restaurant and have dirty martinis. I’m kissing Ricky’s neck while he tells me about his ex-wife and work drama. He’s in finance, obviously. I don’t know or care who Ricky dates or fucks when we’re not hanging out. We never ask each other such questions.Ricky drives me home, and I invite him into my tiny studio, but we’re both pretty tired. We kiss. He fingers me until I come. Then he drives away. A fun night!
On cue, the next morning, the Party Girl recieved a “massage gift certificate from Ricky” - “such a nice place, too!” To thank him, she “text[ed] him a million heart emojis.” After the massage at the “fancy spa”, where she spent “90 minutes of heaven [on earth]”, she “text[ed] Ricky a million thank-yous, which he hearts.”
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On Amazon Prime’s Cruel Intentions (2024), Caroline and Lucien, step-siblings and Manchester College students, attempted to seduce Annie - the 18-year-old freshman and daughter of the Vice President of the United States. Interestingly, Lucien had a “camera thing”. In other words, he couldn’t have sex unless he was making a sex tape; thus, every time he had sex on campus, it was recorded. (Note: Lucien shared his sex tapes with Caroline, whom masturbated in her sorority house bed while she watched her step-brother’s sex tape on her MacBook.) The Manchester College coeds whom Lucien made sex tapes with were willing sex tape participants, and, with the exception of the Vice President’s daughter, they had a disregard for whom saw the sex tapes.
This is relevant to the Party Girl, because after a “friend in PR” sent the Party Girl a “vibe” (i.e., a vibrator), “a tiny little guy”, from a company that the friend in PR represents, the Party Girl “double-lock[ed]” her doors and tried it out. Her verdict: “The vibe is a gem. I text my PR friend that I fully support her client.” Subsequently, the Party Girl filmed herself “using the new vibe”, and she sexted her Gen Z amateur porn to Dylan - a business school student whom lives in an apartment, “which is owned by his parents.”
Fascinatingly, like the Manchester College coeds, the Party Girl didn’t care if someone other than Dylan saw her sext. The Party Girl wrote:
I film myself using the new vibe and send it to Dylan. I am not worried about what Dylan will do with the vid. He can jerk off to it. Or show his friends. Who cares!
(Note: Dylan never responded to the Party Girl’s sext. Is that because receiving sexts is so common (for Dylan) that they don’t warrant a reply?)
And this is not an uncommon sentiment among Gen Z, which is a shift away from Gen X and even some Gen Y, whom are, in general, more protective over the distribution of their sexts.
For instance, on the “Spilling all of my FIRSTS” episode of the Extra Dirty podcast (June 5, 2025), a questioner wanted some advice from Hallie Batchelder, a NYC influencer with 645.6K TikTok followers and the podcast’s host, for some “extra dirty advice” about making sex tapes with three (!) of her “sneaky links” (i.e., casual sex partners). Understandably, the questioner was hesitant about making the three (!) separate sex tapes, because she had only made sex tapes in high school with her “long-term high school boyfriend”. The questioner asked Hallie: “Have you ever made a sex tape with a casual hookup?”
Hallie, who, à la the Party Girl, had a Venmo Sugar Daddy too, responded by sharing that, like Lucien, she has a sex tape problem and kink too, because she makes a sex tape with every casual hookup. Hallie opined that making a sex tape is similar to making a YouTube podcast; thus, she feels obligated to perform for the camera during casual hookups, because, to Hallie, having casual sex is almost like being on stage. Hallie said,
“Oh my god, I've made sex tapes with everyone. It's actually a problem and a kink of mine. Like, every casual hookup I've ever had, I'm, like, whip out the camera. I do have a podcast, so, like, whenever a camera is out, I feel, like, I perform. I kind of look at sex tapes the same way. It's, like, almost, like, I'm on a stage.”
Hallie said that she loves the idea that her sextapes enter the “spank bank” (i.e., saved content for masturbation), because she gets gratification from knowing that a guy is masturbating to, say, a sex tape of her oral sex performance. Hallie said,
“And I just, like, love the idea cuz, like, these are going to the spank bank. Like, these videos are going straight to the spank bank. And there's just something - a thought of a guy, like, you know, like, jerking off or whatever to, like, a sex tape of you, like, sucking them off or whatever that just makes - brings me gratification.”
In addition, Hallie shared that it’s hot to watch her performances in sextapes, because it’s similar to an athlete analyzing game film. While watching her sextapes, Hallie has fun analyzing the angles, the lighting, and assessing how she looks from the camera’s perspective. Hallie said,
“I think it's hot. Like, I think it's so hot to make a sex tape and then watch it back. Like, you know how like sports players they have like film and then like film meetings after. That's how I treat sex tapes with my casual hookups. We'll have a sex tape. We'll get all the angles, you know, maybe get a light in there. [...] I want to be filmed. I also, like, want to see what I look like from, like, a camera perspective. I think it's, like, fun. Maybe I'm just like a narcissist [...]”
However, Hallie advised that making a sex tape should happen organically.
“I wouldn't plan it. [...] No, I think it should be on a whim. Like, this is how I do it. I'll be, like, fooling around with a guy in my bed and then I'll just, like, "Oh my God, film me. This is so fun. That's so hot. And they'll always be, like, ‘Yep.’”
And Hallie warned the questioner about the possibility of sextape leaks, but Hallie said that, sometimes, like the Party Girl, she wants her casual hookups to leak her “amazing” sex tapes. Hallie said,
“But, like, sometimes I'm, like, I wish they would show their friends the amazing work that I've put into them.”
In the end, Hallie advised the questioner to have fun and make the three (!) sex tapes with her “sneaky links”, because making casual hookup sex tapes is fun and hot. Hallie advised,
“And yeah, I would just say have fun with it.”“I would say do it. It's fun. It's hot. But at the end of the day, just like be careful [...]”
Further reading: “Influencer Hallie Batchelder: (Teen) Anal Sex and Venmo Sugar Daddies”
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