Influencer Hallie Batchelder: (Teen) Anal Sex and Venmo Sugar Daddies

Hallie Batchelder is a New York City-based influencer slash content creator who was recently signed to Alex Cooper’s The Unwell Network. Batchelder was on Cooper’s Call Her Daddy “The Hamptons Confessional” podcast (Aug 28, 2024) Hallie she shared, after having “about seven drinks”, that she recently had anal sex - on the first and apparently last date, that she dabbled with sugar daddies, and she was caught having (teen) anal sex in Aruba - when she was 15. 

“Hi, my name is Hallie Batchelder. I'm about seven drinks in right now, and guys, I'm feeling fucking fuzzy. I'm feeling warm and I'm feeling curious. I'm not gonna lie. Okay, I'm from Boston, Massachusetts, but I live in New York right now. My current relationship status is single. So single. Kind of sad. Honestly, the fall is gonna be really lonely, whatever.” 

“Okay, my confession is, last week, I went on a first date, and honestly, we had oysters as the appetizer. So I'm gonna, like, blame the oysters, because it's like an aphrodisiac. He fucked me in the ass, I'm not gonna lie, and I liked it. I hope they put this in.” 

Next Hallie, who is reportedly now in her late twenties, shared that when she was a college girl, she had sex on the same day with two different neighbors. Why? Because, per Hallie, she can’t turn down an offer for sex.

“Well, have I ever fucked multiple people in one night. There's so many answers to this question. Yes is the immediate answer. I mean, like, are we talking about threesome? Production? Wait, in college, there was one night, so I was on like, the basement floor of my building. That's where I lived. I used to, like, fuck this guy that lives in the basement, but I also fucked this guy lived on the third floor. It's like they were friends in the same frat. They found out about each other. I'm just a girl guys, I don't know, like, I don't know what to do. Like, like, they were both hot. Like, what like, am I gonna say? No, I don't know how to say, No, I'm working on it.”

In almost every age-gap memoir there are contradictions. And Hallie’s (verbal) memoir is no different. For example, Hallie began by stating that she was in a relationship with a man whom was “probably 13 years older”, and whom “used to spend, like, a daddy”. But then she said that since she came from money, she didn’t need money from a sugar daddy.

“Have I ever dabbled with the sugar daddy? I don't know if he was daddy's status. He was like, I mean, he was like, probably 13 years older than me, but he used to spend, like, a daddy.”

“Honestly, I don't need men for their money. Like, I come from money, so like, it like, doesn't bother me. So, like, when guys, like, think I need them for their fucking bag. I'm like, get be fucking frail for a second. I don't need your fucking pockets.”

Hallie went on to elaborate on the man, by relating that he was 36 and that she was turned on by his one-thousand-dollar tips. 

“He was probably 36. I was 23, which to me, was a daddy, but he used to go out to a restaurant. We'd get drinks. Say I was, like, two margaritas. He would always be like, “Should I tip a thou? Should I tip a thou?” And I be like, ‘Yes, tip a thou, and fuck me sideways.’”

Despite the fact that Hallie comes from money, she called her sugar daddy for three weeks to ask him to pay for her breast implants. 

“Okay, I have a funny story, actually, about the sugar daddy. So he was in London one night, and he FaceTimed me and he ghosted me for like, three weeks. So he finally picked up the phone. And I was like, “Okay, hi. I'm thinking about getting my boobs done. And he was like, ‘I'll pay for them, whatever. I'll Venmo you.’”

Apparently, Hallie’s sugar daddy’s best friend was Hallie’s sugar daddy as well. And both of them felt like they owned Hallie's tits. (I wonder what could have given them that impression?)

So him and his best friend, Venmoed for my tits. They, like, both think they own my tits. 

Interestingly, in the end, Hallie’s (wealthy) parents paid for her breast implants, and she “pocketed the money” from her sugar daddies.

“Little did they know my dad and my mom, if you pass your real estate licensing exam, like, I had no job at this point. So, like, if you pass your real estate license [...] we'll pay for that surgery. [I] [p]assed in two weeks, and then I pocketed the money that that guy gave me, and then had [an] amazing rack after that.”

And speaking of Hallie’s parents, Hallie shared that when she was a nymphet, and having anal sex on a pull out bed in Aruba, her mother stepped into the room. 

“Wait, when I was 15, my mom walked in. I mean, getting fucked in the ass on a pull out bed in Aruba.” 

Hallie’s Call Her Daddy episode has raised a (rhetorical) question: Why do influencers slash content creators like Hallie, Talia Lichstein, and Brianna Chickenfry share their (teen) sex stories? Is it for likes? For followers? For clout?  For money? All of the above?

The Hidden Price of Sugar: A Sugar Baby Desires True Intimacy from Sugar Daddy

Frankie Beach posted the piece "The Hidden Price Of Sugaring: Does being a sugar baby bolster capitalism?" on Killer and a Sweet Thang (NOVEMBER 13 2019). In the piece, 22-year-old Beach shared that she's a sugar baby, because she "needed money". [Emphasis added]

However, Beach was disturbed by the cold and transactional nature of sugaring. After an older sugar daddy informed Beach, "in a business-like manner", that he would pay her after they were "intimate", Beach was: "[...] lost for words, attempting to conceptualize an intimacy that exists isolated from a relationship: an intimacy that is performed." She wrote: "If intimacy is a service provided, is it intimacy at all?"

Despite their non-verbal debate over semantics, Beach and her sugar daddy met at a hotel room where for an hour, she gave him her young mind and younger body, and he gave her $500. 

At a hotel room, close to work, we met for an hour. I gave him my mind and my body and he gave me five hundred dollars in cash; to him it was a traditional relationship stripped to its bare bones, without any superfluous time spent or energy expended. Only the minimal requirements, an experience that offered a cathartic mental and physical release, then abruptly ended.

Interestingly, Beach wrote that most sugar babies don't consider sugaring to be sex work! Why? Because sugar daddies don't only pay for sex. In addition, they pay for "the illusion of intimacy". In other words, a sugar daddy pays for how much time he spends with his sugar baby, when and where they're intimate, and the nature of their intimacy.

By most who engage in it, it is not considered sex work. I don’t know if it is or not, and I don’t think it makes a difference either way. There’s nothing wrong with sex work for people who are fulfilled by doing it. But the fact remains that he was not only paying for sex, because he could do that a lot more cheaply and easily. What he paid me for is the creation and maintenance of a specific illusion, namely, the illusion of intimacy. He pays to be able to control how much time we spend together, when and where we spend our time, and the nature of the time spent. He pays to curate the experience of intimacy he wants.  

Despite, Beach's claims, there still appears to be very little difference between a john and a sugar daddy and a sugar baby and prostitute. #semantics For example, subsequently, Beach wrote: 

"[...] I was selling my body for sex." 

"And After he pressed the cash into my hand at the hotel room, I felt a rush. I felt a rush because having money made me feel powerful."

Unfortunately, Beach is convinced that her "personal value" is determined by how much money she makes, "[...] because money is the dominant societal indicator of value." And unfortunately, Beach has an inferiority complex and feels "worth less as a person", because she makes less money than most of her friends and family. 

We grow up convinced that our personal value is determined by how much money we make, because money is the dominant societal indicator of value. I know this is true because of the inferiority I feel at making less money than most of my friends and family, like I am somehow worth less as a person. 

Without fail, every piece of age-gap non-fiction we've recapped is littered with contradictions. For example, Beach shared that she's "in a place of privilege" and that her sugaring is simply done to make her life "a lot more comfortable". And she confessed: "I am not in a desperate situation." But then Beach blamed sugar daddies for the woes of sugaring. She wrote that she "cannot ethically support" sugaring, because it: "[...] encourages a practice of “intimacy” that ultimately benefits men."

I acknowledge that I am in a place of privilege. Although sleeping with men for money would make my life a lot more comfortable at this point in my life, I am not in a desperate situation. Not yet, at least. But sugaring is not empowering for me anymore because it requires me to avoid the truth that I am engaging in a system I cannot ethically support. Sugaring, in encouraging the creation of transactional relationships, also encourages a practice of “intimacy” that ultimately benefits men. Other forms of sex work don’t necessarily aim to construct such a controlled illusion of intimacy; they are straightforward about the service and the reward. 

In the end, it appears that Bleach would rather be a traditional prostitute, because she "cannot ethically support" "the illusion of intimacy" that comes with sugaring - despite the additional comforts that comes with the extra money.

Julia Fox: A Teen Sex Worker Praying for Sugar Daddy (Part 1)

Down the Drain (Simon & Shuster, 2023) is Julia Fox’s memoir. Julia shared in the New York Times Bestseller that when she was an 18-year-old student at City-as-School High School in Manhattan, she applied for a job as a (teen) dominatrix where she “could make up to a thousand dollars a day.” 

To get the job, Julia submitted a “full-body picture”, her bio, and she had to: “Describe in detail [her] most sadistic sexual fantasy”. Julia’s “sadistic sexual fantasy” was trampling a man’s cock and squatting on his face to suffocate him to muffle his cries before he masturbated and had an orgasm “in under ten seconds”. (p. 163-164)

Unsurprisingly, Julia got the job. (p. 166) Her first client was Stewart, an old man, whom she found “simultaneously repulsive and fascinating”. (p. 170) Stewart was fond of golden showers; therefore, Mistress Valentina (i.e., Julia) obliged. Julia wrote: 

I stand up, towering over him, and crouch down, releasing my bladder [...] He gargles and gags as the golden substance trickles down his face. “Mmmm,” he “begins to moan, and I notice that he’s finally getting an erection. (p. 171)

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Eventually, for “great money”, Julia became a sub. During one submissive session, an “older British businessman” with an “opulent watch and an impeccably tailored suit”, paid 18-year-old Julia $100 per article of her clothing, $100 to hook her arms to a suspension bar, $200 to whip her, “and another hundred to do it hard.” (p. 174) Of the submissive session, Julia wrote:

The room we’re in is lined with mirrors, and as I stand there, completely naked with my legs apart and wrists tied up and hooked to the ceiling, I can’t escape my reflection. I can see myself from every angle [...] flinching with every strike from the leather flogger. [...] And then the most forbidden thought of all crosses my mind: What would my parents think if they saw me like this? Cringe.

It’s impressive considering I’m only eighteen and the youngest girl to ever work there.

Julia became “addicted” to making “thousands of dollars a week, most of it cash.” However, Julia learned from the other dommes that “pretty dommes” didn’t “typically last more than six months at the dungeon.” Why? They got “plucked by sugar daddies who don’t wanna share them!” Consequently, Julia, literally, prayed for a Sugar Daddy. (p. 179) Julia wrote:

Every night before bed, I spend an hour scrolling through Backpage searching for my long-lost sugar daddy. I shut my eyes and pray: “Please, God. Please send me a sugar daddy. I promise I’ll be so good. I’ll never do anything bad again.” (p. 179)

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“After six long months at the dungeon," Julia, then-19-years-old and still in high school, met Rohan at The Union Club. Julia described Rohan as a “gentleman in his late forties with tan skin, jet-black hair, big brown eyes, and a warm smile stretching from ear to ear.” (p. 189-190) And “in good shape for his age.” (p. 197)

After their first lunch date, Rohan handed Julia “a check for seven thousand dollars.” Consequently, Julia gave Rohan “a long passionate kiss with lots of tongue.” At their second lunch date “at a restaurant in the Financial District,” with Jerry Springer “sitting less than five feet away,” Rohan dropped a “thick wad of cash” (i.e., “ten thousand dollars”) into Julia’s purse under the table. (p. 193) 

With the newfound money, Julia “went out every night until dawn” where she chased “Xanax bars with unlimited shots of tequila”. She and a friend did “lines of coke off each other’s feet for the viewing pleasure of older graff heads.” And Julia got nude on the stage at The Box. (p. 194)

Rohan rented Julia “a new apartment in the East Village”. Consequently, she felt “guilty for hiding” her “addiction from him.” When she was with him, she would “hide the tracks” on her “arms with long sleeve shirts”, but when she got home, she would “have a spoon” on her “nightstand waiting”. (p. 196)

After Julia “pop[ped] a Xanax” and “chug[ged] two glasses of champagne”, she “doze[d] off” while they were having sex for the first time. (p. 197)

On her 20th birthday, Julia and Rohan had lunch before Julia returned to her East Village apartment “while clutching the bundle of heroin” she had been saving. (p. 198) But for her 21st birthday, Rohan purchased Jullia a “cherry-red Mercedes Benz” and upgraded her to a $10,000/month “spacious loft in Soho”. (p. 200)

Subsequently, Rohan invited Julia and her friends to: “the opera, the ballet, and front-row seats for shows like The Book of Mormon”, “courtside [seats] at Knicks games”, “shopping sprees at Bergdorf’s and Saks” and “Thanksgiving and Christmas Day together at Cipriani.” P. 200

Eventually, Rohan became “needy and possessive”. Consequently, the “weight of his affection” became “too heavy” for Julia, but she “live[d] in constant fear” that Rohan would “take everything away”. (p. 201)

Subsequently, Julia began an affair with Shane – a skateboarder whom gave Julia “pussy tingles”. After the “messiest, sweatiest, [and] raunchiest unprotected sex” of her life, Shane said, “May I ask what the deal is with your sugar daddy?” And he asked, “Isn’t he married” However, Shane opined that Julia being a Sugar Baby was “pretty cool” and “fuckin’ badass”, and Shane promised, “I won’t fuck it up for you.” (p. 203)

During the summer, Rohan rented Julia a house in the Hamptons where Rohan caught Julia and Shane in the pool. After Julia “wrestle[d] a towel” around her naked body, she introduced Rohan to Shane. (p. 205)

Julia, “This is Marcello, my gay hairdresser!” 

Rohan, “He doesn’t look very gay to me.” [LOL]

Rohan, seemingly, fell for it. (p. 206) However, weeks later, a private investigator in Miami delivered Rohan a photo of Julia “straddling Shane in the pool, topless.” (p. 207)

In the end, before both relationships soured, Julia learned that Rohan had another Sugar Baby named Sabrina whom looked more Italian than Julia. (p. 217) Rohan got Sabrina a Porsche and the keys to the house in the Hamptons (on the weekends). (p. 221) And after Julia informed Shane that she was [temporarily] pregnant, she learned that Shane was “dating a Norwegian model” and that “he had a cocaine orgy in the bathroom […] with, like, ten people.” (p. 221)

Prior to sharing her life as a teen sex worker and teen Sugar Baby, Julia related some salacious details about her childhood, which you can read about in part 2. For example, during middle school, after Julia put her mouth over Tommy’s “IT”, he ejaculated “all over” her hair.

[In addition to Down the Drain being a New York Times Bestseller, per Simon & Shuster, New York magazine opined that Julia Fox is “one of the all-time pop-culture greats”. Per Amazon, Elle named Down the Drain one of the "Best Books of 2023". And Elle’s Juliana Ukiomogbe opined that Down the Drain is a “masterpiece”.]

Julia Fox: A Teen Sex Worker Praying for Sugar Daddy (Part 2) | Middle School

Julia Fox: A Teen Sex Worker Praying for Sugar Daddy (Part 3) | Elementary & High School 

Zena: A British Sugar Baby

If you thought being a sugar baby was limited to high school girls and college coeds - think again, because there are sugar babys in their 30s. And just like teen prostitutes, the clients of the 30-year-old sugarbabys are much older as well. 

In Lauren Libbert's Grazia post 'My Life As A Secret Sugarbaby' (28 12 2021), Zena, a 31-year-old business owner and mother of two from Manchester, made it known that she didn't have to be a sugar baby. She simply wanted a sugar daddy for more money. Thus after another parent informed Zena, on the school's playground, that she earned her designer handbag by being a sugar baby, Zena made an account on www.sugardaddie.com - that very night.  

I didn’t need a sugar daddy; I wanted one. I am a working mum of two children, now eight and four, with two beauty businesses of my own which had already earnt me a fair amount of financial success. But I was – am - ambitious for more. A financial leg up from an attentive, successful man was appealing.

John, Zena's third sugar daddy, was 52 and exchanged, among other perks, the following items with Zena:

• Vivienne Westwood jewelry 
• Designer Fendi
• A Chanel bag on Mother’s Day

But what Zena liked to exchange the most was money. She even "[...] opened a separate ‘sugar daddy’ account so he could make direct payments."

While the luxuries were lovely, it was John’s gifts of money that excited me the most. Every now and again, he’d secretly ring ahead at the beauty salon where I’d go for my cosmetic treatments and put £500 on account. In lockdown, he knew I was having cash flow problems and gifted me £5,000 to inject into my business. 

His most significant and generous payment was towards my first home. On our first date, I mentioned I had found a four-bedroom house to buy and was saving for the £20,000 deposit. When I told him I had managed to save half, he surprised me with the most generous offer ever. [Emphasis added] 

At some point I’ll want to stop being a sugar baby, but making money is my main priority right now. 

Zena even said that John "always insisted" on giving her money, because it made him "happy", which made it "easier to accept."  It appears that Zena is confused about what it John was referring to. But she did share that: "Sex with John felt natural after a few dates [...]" She's a natural.

And like Demi Moore's mom, Zena's mom was in on it too. (Note: Zena' s dad cheated on her mum with a young woman - a whopping 40 years younger.)

Still, today, the only person who knows about our relationship is my mum, as she looks after my kids when I’m away.

Lastly, Zena opined: "I wasn’t a prostitute." Really? #semantics 

The Cut Sex Diaries: New York College Student Sugar Baby

New York's The Cut Sex Diaries feature, "The College Student Starting to Fall for Her Sugar Daddy" (OCT. 3, 2021), is about 21-year-old college student slash sugar baby slash part-time prostitute. 

DAY ONE

After her Russian lecture, the sugar baby had a date with N, an affectionate and validating wealthy 45-year-old, whom she met on a sugar-daddy website.

10:00 p.m. "I love pining for his affection and validation, and he likes being seen with a younger girl."

12:30 a.m. He orders me another tequila Sprite and then we walk back to his new apartment, smoking a joint and a cigarette along the way. Then I’m standing in front of his bed and he kisses me and pushes me onto the comforter. Soon enough he’s fingering me, then I’m going down on him, and eventually start riding him. Afterwards I sleep over, satisfied with the night.

DAY TWO

The next morning the coed shared that, despite their age-gap, she craved texts from N, she "badly" wanted him to "fuck" her, and "maybe" take care of her.

7:00 a.m. When I wake up, N tells me that before we went to sleep I curled up right next to him, which he calls “endearing.” I stay awake for an hour and think about how much I’m projecting onto him — how much I crave texts from him and how badly I want him to fuck me and take me to dinner and maybe just take care of me, which is the worst of all. Also, I’m hungover as fuck.

DAY THREE

While at the library, the coed received a text from an investment banker - whom we'll assume the coed met on the sugar-daddy website as well. They've held hands during sex:

1:00 p.m. I finally head to the library to get some reading done. While I’m there, this investment banker texts me asking if I have plans for Friday. I’ve been sleeping with him for a few months now, and it’s been getting weirdly intimate — last time, we held hands while he fucked me. I keep telling my friends I want him to want to date me, but we all know I like the idea of a boyfriend better than the reality of monogamy. I take a few hours to respond. 

Due to a bit of ennui, the coed had an orgasm in her dorm room via a vibrator and thoughts of N: 

5:00 p.m. I’m bored in my room so I use my vibrator. I come thinking about N

Lastly, as it relates to this blog, after meeting an NYU student for drinks, our coed got a text from M, a "[...] man is high up at a massive media conglomerate [...]", whom pays the coed to watch him masturbate. Consequently, she's "[...] excited by the opportunity to make a few hundred dollars."

10:00 p.m. I take the train down to the East Village and meet my friend from NYU for drinks. We go to some dive bar and drink beer and mezcal. While we’re there, M’s name pops up on my phone. This man is high up at a massive media conglomerate, and he once paid me to go to his apartment, snort his coke, tell him about my sex life, and get on all fours while he jerked off. I haven’t heard from him in months, and I’m excited by the opportunity to make a few hundred dollars.

Julia Fox: A Teen Sex Worker Praying for Sugar Daddy (Part 2) | Middle School

We related in part 1, that Julia Fox shared in Down the Drain (Simon & Shuster, 2023) that she was a teen sex worker and, after literally praying for a Sugar Daddy, she became a teen Sugar Baby. In addition, in the memoir, a New York Times Bestseller, Julia related some salacious from middle school. 

Julia wrote that when she was 11, she started 6th grade in the fall of 2001 at East Side Middle School in Manhattan where she smoked “the occasional cigarette here and there”, and she started “wearing dark lipstick to class”. (p. 28-29)

Ella, Julia’s straight-A student classmate, introduced Julia to marijuana. Julia wrote that before her first hit in Ella’s bedroom, her heart pounded through her Playboy tank top. Ella taught Julia how to “roll joints with a filter, ‘like the French’”. And Julia and Ella kissed each other “like the French too.” Ella, who had “beautiful thick auburn hair and big green eyes”, insisted that their pre-teen girl-on-girl kissing was “practice for the real deal”, but Julia sensed that Ella liked kissing girls. (p. 33)

Julia wrote:

“We play[ed] games like spin the bottle and seven minutes in heaven [i.e., in the closet kissing], and then we pretend[ed] like it didn’t happen.” (p. 33)

[In a bit of foreshadowing, Julia wrote that Kat, Ella’s 17-year-old sister, was a teen dominatrix whom “beat guys up for money.” Interestingly, Julia found a “vibrating crotch toy” in Kat’s bedroom. (p. 34)]

Julia and Ella got their belly buttons pierced on Saint Mark’s - in the 6th grade! (In addition, Julia got her tongue pierced in the 7th grade!)  (p. 34) Julia wrote:

“We decide to get our belly buttons pierced on Saint Mark’s, taking turns on the phone outside pretending to be each other’s moms, tricking the piercer into doing it. It becomes our little secret as we proudly show off our matching belly rings to our envious classmates in school.” (p. 34)

11-year-old Julia met 26-year-old Mickey at one of Kat’s house parties. After Julia took a hit from Mickey’s joint and chased it with a “swig of Jack Daniel’s”, Mickey said, “I know it might be wrong but I don’t give a fuck. I’ve wanted to kiss you all night.” Julia dared, “Well, then do it.” (p. 35-36)

Mickey did it, and Julia pulled Mickey down on top of her. Julia wrote that Mickey’s tongue tasted like “smoke and spearmint”. They didn’t have sex, but Julia wrote that it was an “exhilarating encounter”. 

Consequently, Julia became hooked on the power she had “over someone by simply just existing.” In addition, she shed her baggy clothes and embraced her figure. The hot-pink padded bra she stole from Victoria’s Secret made her B-cups “look like double D’s”. And Julia shared that she had “the biggest butt”, “which the boys at [middle] school always comment[ed] on,” but that made the girls jealous. However, Julia admitted: “I love[d] the attention.” (p. 36-37) 

After Ella moved to Catalina Island, Julia befriended “beautiful” Trisha whom was known for “blow jobs with older guys in the park.” But Trisha only gave one blow job in the park. It happened when she was in the fifth grade (≈10-years-old) and the boy was 17. Trisha shared with Julia that the blowjob in the park, which happened at night in the bushes near the entrance, was her idea, because she “really wanted to try it.” (p. 38-39) Apparently, Trisha was not afraid of NYC’s rats!

To accompany their piercings, Julia and Ella flirted with the “old tattoo artist guy” on Saint Mark’s whom gave them free tattoos. In addition, 12-year-old Julia and Ella got their nipples pierced. (p. 45-46) Julia wrote:

“We get our nipples pierced. We are twelve years old but my dad says we are worse than the girls in the movie Thirteen. He laughs and thinks it's funny.” (p. 46)

After Trisha moved to Oklahoma, Julia befriended Rose - a rich classmate. “Penthouse on Fifth Avenue rich.” Julia loved sneaking into Rose’s penthouse after hours where the schoolgirls would, “[...] sit cross-legged, facing each other on her floor, and pass each other love poems.” Sometimes Julia and Rose would: “[...] massage each other with oils”, “dribble hot wax over each other’s bodies’ or take “baths together” where Julia couldn't stop staring at Rose's “enormous double-D breasts, covered in thick purple stretch marks.” (p. 48)

When Rose was grounded, Julian hung out with Alice whom “lost a bunch of weight using diet pills [...] [and] started tanning and wearing makeup.” (p. 55) Julia and Alice had a crush on Tommy whom invited them to his house via AIM: “My mom is out of town, you guys should come over!” (p. 54-55) 

After a “few beers”, Tommy handed Julia and Alice a pair of boxers and they squeezed into Tommy’s “tiny twin bed” where, after Julia put Tommy’s penis into her mouth, he immediately ejaculated all over her hair. Consequently, Julia was “half thrilled, [and] half horrified.” Julia wrote:

I quietly slide under the blanket until I’m face-to-face with IT. Wow, it’s beautiful. I put my hands around it and grip it tightly with my sweaty palms. I move my hands up and down, his body twitching at my every move. I stick my tongue out and taste the tip, as if sampling an ice cream cone. It doesn’t taste bad! I put my mouth over it and before I can even start sucking, he ejaculates all over my hair. I shoot up from under the covers and run to the bathroom. I begin scrubbing the gelatinous goop out of my hair, half thrilled, half horrified. (p. 56)

Days later, Julia graduated from middle school; however, before she started elementary school, she lost her virginity to 23-year-old Giovanni - in the middle of the street in Italy. We recapped Julia and Giovanni’s age-gap affair in part 3 along with other salacious details that Julia shared about elementary and high school. 

Julia Fox: A Teen Sex Worker Praying for Sugar Daddy (Part 1)

Julia Fox: A Teen Sex Worker Praying for Sugar Daddy (Part 3) | Elementary & High School

[In addition to Down the Drain being a New York Times Bestseller, per Simon & Shuster, New York magazine opined that Julia Fox is “one of the all-time pop-culture greats”. Per Amazon, Elle named Down the Drain one of the "Best Books of 2023". And Elle’s Juliana Ukiomogbe opined that Down the Drain is a “masterpiece”.]

Julia Fox: A Teen Sex Worker Praying for Sugar Daddy (Part 3) | Elementary and High School

The summer before Julia began elementary school, she went to Italy. Chiara, Julia’s 15-year-old cousin, “smokes like a chimney, drinks like a sailor, and curses like a truck driver.” But, unlike 14-year-old Julia, Chiara doesn’t wear makeup, thongs, and padded bras. (p. 60) [Later, Chiara informed Julia that their classmates were keeping track of the color of Jullia’s thongs in their notebooks. (p. 70)]

At the local bar down the mountain, Julia and Chiara downed “shots of vodka back-to-back” where Julia flirted with “hot older guys who ride motorcycles and drive muscle cars.” The boys in town didn’t “excite” Julia. Plus, Julia got a “rush” when she “succeed[ed] at the art of seduction.” Julia wrote that most of the men didn’t care that she was 14, which is not surprising since the age of consent in Italy is 14. (p. 60) 

Julia described 23-year-old Giovanni as the most beautiful man she had ever seen with an “Irresistible”, “Venetian drawl” and long eyelashes. (p. 61) And it didn’t hurt that Giovanni drove a purple Porsche Cayenne. 

After some Anima Nera and red wine, Giovanni kissed Julia with his “soft and succulent” lips. Giovanni unhooked her bra, lifted her skirt and kissed her breasts. Julia pulled down Giovanni’s pants, admired his penis, and she “suck[ed] it for a few seconds” before she squatted over Giovanni and sat on his uncircumcised yet “pretty” penis - “in the middle of the cobblestone road.” Thus, Julia lost her virginity at 14 in the middle of the street in Italy. (p. 62) 

Unsurprisingly, Julia and Giovanni were seen by a voyeur. However, days later, Julia and Giovanni had age-gap sex again - behind a “desolate church” “under the stars”. (p. 64)

Julia returned to New York, but, days later, she asked to go back to Italy whItaere she texted Giovanni: “Hi G. It’s Julia. I live in Italy now. If you're ever in Como, we should meet up.” G never replied. (p. 68)

In a basement café, while they all “chain-smoked cigarettes”, Julia showed some schoolmates her nipple ring. Consequently, they lost their minds! However, Julia's Italian classmates were “experienced too”. For example: “They wear heels every day to class. They wear layers of bronzer and their highlighted hair is always perfectly coiffed.” And Tatiana shared that she “has a thing for fucking married men”. For instance: “She’s been dating the butcher in secret for the past two years.” (i.e., Tatiana started dating the (married) butcher when she was 13.) (p. 74)

Julia returned to New York during Christmas break where she accompanied Trish to Trish’s “dealer’s apartment”, which is where Julia met Ace. Not one for pleasantries, Ace, with his “milky” skin and “jet-black hair”, simply dropped a white pill, which Julia popped. (p. 83-84)

Minutes later, in front of everyone in the dealer’s apartment, 16-year-old Julia climbed on top of Ace and rode him until she felt “fireworks” in her vagina. She wrote that she was “overwhelmed by the euphoric bomb that exploded” between them. Interestingly, Julia shared that that was her first penetrative orgasm, but she did not share when she had her first non-penetrative orgasm. (p. 85) 

Subsequently, Julia ran to the bathroom, in the nude, followed by Ace where she asked for more ecstasy. Moments after showering, dressing and popping another white pill, Julia rode Ace “hard and fast and soft and slow” in the back seat of a Honda while Dougies drove through midtown. (p. 85)

Days later, after Julia inhaled cocaine off Ace’s fist, she felt a “lightning bolt” strike that went from her spine to her panties and caused a “tingling sensation” in her vagina.  Consequently, in the bathroom, Julia ripped off her top, got on her knees, devoured Ace’s penis, and slurped on his “salty sweat juice.”  (p. 92)

Before her flight back to Italy, Ace gave Julia a Xanax, so she could, “[...] sleep on the flight.” However, after arriving in Italy, Julia told her grandfather that she needed money for an abortion. She lied. Julia used the money to buy a plane ticket back to New York. (p. 94-95)

Julia was back in New York, but she hadn’t been home in weeks. Consequently, Julia’s family posted a “missings persons poster on 59th Street”.  (p. 108)

Ace was abusive. For example, once, after he “chucked” a porcelain lamp at Julia, he dangled her “upper body out an open window.” (p. 112) It appears that Julia didn’t share Ace’s age, but he was at least 21, because the police threatened to arrest him for “kidnapping and statutory rap.” (p. 117) 

Unsurprisingly, Julia wasn’t the only elementary school girl whom had sex with Ace. Julia found “an entire collection of X-rated photographs” on Ace’s computer. For example, among the “endless photographs”, Julia found a photograph of “a petite girl with long chestnut hair, a spray tan, and the biggest boobs”. (p. 120-121)

A judge sent Ace “back to Rikers. No bail” (p. 122) where he threatened to murder Julia and her entire family. (p. 126) Consequently, while on the phone with Ace from Rikers, Julia attempted suicide and was admitted to the “psych ward” at New York-Presbyterian where she stayed for weeks. (p. 127-135)

After Julia was discharged from the “psych ward”, her father enrolled her “in a public high school downtown” where she “smoked so much weed and pop[ped] so many pills”, and where she was called the “weird white girl with a fat ass.” (p. 139) 

(Interestingly, Veronica, Julia’s wealthy “beautiful blond Italian” friend, visited New York. Consequently, to Julia’s shock, Veronica began an age-gap affair with Julia’s father. (p. 146-147) 

During high school, Julia became a teen it-girl after she “pose[d] semi-nude for a prominent street artist.” At night, Julia would “bounce around nightclubs all over the Meatpacking District” and she would wake up the next day with her “pockets and bra stuffed with crumpled-up dollar bills and” her “purse overflowing with cash”. However, Julia didn’t share how she got the cash. (p. 140) Subsequently, Julia applied for the (teen) dominatrix job and prayed for a Sugar Daddy.

Julia Fox: A Teen Sex Worker Praying for Sugar Daddy (Part 1) 

Julia Fox: A Teen Sex Worker Praying for Sugar Daddy (Part 2) | Middle School

[In addition to Down the Drain being a New York Times Bestseller, per Simon & Shuster, New York magazine opined that Julia Fox is “one of the all-time pop-culture greats”. Per Amazon, Elle named Down the Drain one of the "Best Books of 2023". And Elle’s Juliana Ukiomogbe opined that Down the Drain is a “masterpiece”.]

DADDY: A PLAY | A French Teen (Virtual) Sex Worker?

Here's (part of) the synopsis for Marion Siéfert's intriguingly named Daddy:

From her very first shows, Marion Siéfert has staged childhood, not to soften us but to make her demands and her revolt against the world of adults heard [...]

This time, the heroine of her new show is thirteen years old. She lives in the provinces, in a family where money problems are daily, suffocating. So she dreams of leading the life of the stars and influencers she sees spread out on the networks. 

She escapes by playing video games, these role plays where dozens of players meet online. The avatar she chose for herself falls on that of an older man, who drags her into another game, Daddy. He fills her with skills (the winnings or gifts specific to these games), on condition that she submits herself to increasingly troubled trials...

On the Daddy stage, real life fades away in favor of a digital reality where everything can be bought and changed.

As the Odéon-Théâtre de l'Europe is not in New York, we did not see Daddy; so, let's rely on Laura Cappelle's New York Times review "Daddy Review: Deeper Into the Internet’s Darkest Corners" (May 11, 2023)

Cappelle wrote that Daddy was a "sharp" [age-gap] play that took place in the "internet’s dark corners", but that Mara, the play's nymphet ,was "groomed" and exploited for profit. 

With “Daddy,” a sharp, no-holds-barred new production [...] Marion Siéfert has ventured even further into the internet’s dark corners. In it, a 13-year-old is groomed online by an older man [27-year-old Julien] and gets lost in a virtual reality game that exploits teenage girls for profit.

[Note: Without seeing the play, one may be wary of Cappelle's grooming accusation, because in Emma Cline's Daddy, one may allege that 16-year-old Alice was groomed into selling her panties to men, but an 18-year-old Alice would have been, à la Sami Sheen, a (teen) sex worker.]

Cappelle went on to share that Mara (15-year-old Lila Houel), a quite nymphet, lived in southern France and played online games as an escape, which is how she met Julien, but interestingly, Cappelle wrote that Julien was Mara's "online partner in crime" and that the age-gap couple gamers had an "easy intimacy".

Reality is no match for screen entertainment in “Daddy.” The central character, Mara, is a quiet teenager from southern France [...] [who] whenever she can, Mara escapes to the brighter landscape of online gaming.

In an unnamed video game, she joins Julien, a smooth-talking 27-year-old who is her frequent online partner in crime. The easy intimacy they have built is showcased through a spectacular video sequence: On a screen the size of the Odéon’s stage, we see a 3-D game designed by the video artist Antoine Briot in which Mara and Julien’s avatars who shoot at enemies with assault rifles before hopping on fluorescent skateboards.

Intriguingly, in addition to being a smooth talker, Cappelle described Julien as "clean-cut, in control [i.e., powerful], smoothly scary". In other words, per Olivia Fox Cabane's The Charisma Myth, Julien was charismatic and attractive. Yet, Cappelle implied that Julien groomed Mara with compliments, whom consequently lost her free will and was forced to: "[...] perform routines that earn them points with fans."

The groundwork is laid for the abusive dynamic that ensues. When they first meet outside the game, on a video call, Mara confides in Julien that she dreams of being an actress. He compliments her, and tells her about “Daddy” — a new game that allows players, Julien says, to become avatars sponsored by sugar daddies, and showcase their talents to a “fan base.” 

In the end, despite the plays focus "on the dynamics of child abuse, and the erosion of Mara’s individuality and willpower by Julien." And the: "[...] scenes of verbal and physical violence [...]", Marion Siéfert's Daddy was a New York Times Critic's Pick. 

Pedro Pascal: Hot for Daddy and Teacher

Prior to hosting Saturday Night Live (s48e12), Pedro Pascal was considered by (some) young women to be TikTok's favorite Daddy and\or "daddy of the moment", which prompted CT Jones' Rolling Stone post "Creator of the Viral Pedro Pascal Fancam Explains Why the Actor Is TikTok's Favorite Daddy". Jones wrote:

Every Sunday night, fans of Pedro Pascal can tune in to HBO to watch the Chilean actor star as the stoic, sexy, reluctant father figure Joel in The Last Of Us. But on TikTok, weekly episodes aren’t enough — stanning Pascal is a full-time gig. Fans on the app have crowned 47-year-old Pascal the “daddy of the moment” in the only way it knows how: inundating For You pages everywhere with fan edits. 

Jones explained that a fan edit is like a synonym of fancam, which is like a synonym of thirst trap. 

Jones: As for fancams, they are when TikTokers curate: "[...] videos of a popular actor and smash them together into a short but heavily edited clip full of transitions, filters, and of course, a rousing backing track [...] their most popular forms usually serve one purpose: a thirst trap. Cambridge Dictionary: thirst trap noun | a statement by or photograph of someone on social media that is intended to attract attention or make people who see it sexually interested in them  

Jones related that, despite being 45-years-old, "[...] if there is one thing people on TikTok can agree on, it’s that Pedro Pascal is smoking hot." 

@dvcree petitioning to be your fav pedro pascal editor #pedropascal #pedropascaledit #agentwhiskey #kingsman #dvcree ♬ save a horse ride a cowboy - ᖭི༏ᖫྀ

Jones shared that one of the most popular Pascal fancams was created by TikTok user @dvcree. @dvcree's TikTok "smashed" together clips of Pascal from Agent Whiskey in Kingsman 2: The Golden Circle. The TikTok began with Pascal's character sharing with Halle Berry's character, “I got a six-pack of cold ones on ice, and my roomie’s out all night, so you can scream my name as loud as you need to sugar!” 

As of the writing of this post, that TikTok had over 21 million views, over 2 million likes, and was saved almost 1 million times. (Jones related that saves are "one of the biggest signs of thirst success on TikTok".)

On the red carpet for the premier of The Last Of Us, Pascal was asked, "You know, you're the daddy of the Internet, right? Before answering, Pascal read a tweet from Ally (@merrinluvr) whom tweeted: "I call Pedro Pascal a DILF and think he's my cool slutty father" Pascal replied, "Yup. I am your cool, slutty daddy." Thus, unlike Dr. Phil who adjured his young female fans to stop calling him daddy, Pascal has embraced his DILF status. 

Oxford Languages: DILF noun | a sexually attractive older man, typically one who has children. Urban Diction: acronym | "Dad I'd Like to F***". A dilf is any man (typically between the ages of 30-50) who is incredibly attractive and has kids.

Always aware of the zeitgeist, the writers of Saturday Night Live wrote the skit "Fancam Assembly" - but with a twist. Here's the skit's synopsis posted on YouTube: "A teacher (Pedro Pascal) can't figure out why his students are obsessed with making fancams of him and the rest of the school staff."  That's correct. In the skit, Pascal plays Mr. Ben - a high school teacher. And the fancans (i.e., thirst traps) were made by his students. 

In the skit, during the Technology Use school assembly, Mr. Ben told the 14-year-old students, "Do not make fancams of school staff. Like this." In one example from "thousands" of TikToks that Mr. Ben projected to the assembled students, "sparkly fast romantic montages" of him in the classroom and in the school's hallway were smashed together with hearts. 

One student responded to Mr. Ben's demands that the fancams cease with, "But we make them because you are our beloved, and you have us in a chokehold."

And another student explained that COVID made them make Mr. Ben daddy, "Because COVID lock[ed] us down when we are 11 [sic] and now we are 14, so now we have to make you daddy."

Unsurprisingly, this is not the first time we've written a post were the two motifs (i.e., The Daddy Thing and Hot for Teacher) were combined. For example, we wrote about BuzzFeed's post "13 Really Hot [High School] Teachers That Will Have You Begging For Detention. Yes, Mr. Smith. I’ll gladly stay after class" that re-posted a number of photos that were taken by high school students of their "hot" teachers, which were posted to Tumblr, Instagram, Snapchat and Twitter. Some of the hashtags that accompanied the photos were: #Hot teachers, #DADDY AF and #FUX ME ZADDYYYY.

The Daddy Thing | From Fashion to TikTok: "It's Officially Zaddy Season"

In Teens Love and Want to F*ck James Franco: A Study of a Life and Works, we wrote an entire chapter on The Daddy Thing. And we've written a number of posts on this blog about The Daddy Thing . 

For example, we wrote about Dr. Phil's TikTok where he pleaded with TikTokers to stop calling him "Daddy". And we even produced The Allure of Nymphets: TikTok Edition | Teen Age-Gap Affairs & The Daddy Thing - a [cameraless] documentary. 

But most recently, Alexandra Hildreth posted that "It's officially zaddy season" on i-D\Vice (04 February 2022). Hildreth wrote that, it's official, middle-aged masculinity is hot. And that (skater) boys are out but men substance (e.g., money) are in.

We’re calling it: middle-aged masc is officially hot. Skater boys: out! Men with substance, and even more substantial wallets: in!

And Hildreth (unsurprisingly) related that Dr. Phil isn't the only zaddy on TikTok:

[...] a quick scroll through TikTok or Instagram and you’ll no doubt come across countless sugar daddy memes and clips of Gene Kelly’s character in The Pirate; Eric Dane, a certified zaddy for millennials as McSteamy, now stars as Euphoria’s Cal Jacobs; and then there are  those paparazzi shots of Willem Dafoe (often referred to “Willem Dripfoe” or Willem Da Goat” on TikTok) and Daniel Day-Lewis, which have resurfaced to elicit a collective sigh of desire. 

But don't forget that these parasocial age-gap relationships are on one-way streets, because if, say, Dr. Phil or Daniel Day-Lewis (openly) expressed their attraction to [very] young women, they would be called creepy and possibly be canceled.