Saturday, February 20, 2021

Upper-Class Teen Middle School and High School Oral Sex

I shared in The Allure of Nymphets that Tom Wolfe related in Hooking Up that in high schools and junior high schools, from the plush suburbs of Washington to the underprivileged schools of the South Bronx, 13 and 14-year-old girls were performing fellatio on boys between classes.

And Laura Sessions Stepp posted in the article "Parents Are Alarmed by an Unsettling New Fad in Middle Schools: Oral Sex" (July 8, 1999) for the Washington Post that nymphets at Williamsburg Middle School, "a mostly upper-income community" in Arlington, Virginia, were performing oral sex at house parties and in parks:

The principal, Margaret McCourt-Dirner, told about 25 assembled parents that as many as a dozen girls [...] had been engaging in oral sex through most of the school year. The teens, 13 and 14 years old, were getting together at parties in one another's homes and at local parks.

And some Virginia based middle-school nymphets were performing oral sex in (middle) school and on the (middle) school bus:

At a middle school in Talbot County, officials this year learned through the student grapevine that a girl and a boy, both eighth-graders, had engaged in oral sex in a crowded study hall. The incident followed by only a few months a similar event on a school bus of seventh-graders returning from a field trip [...]

A nymphet shared with Stepp that the nymphet's first experience was in the eighth grade - in a local park. Subsequently, the nymphet performed "oral sex twice more that year". The nymphet opined, "It was no big deal."
That's what happened to one girl who recalled her first experience at the start of eighth grade. At a local park [...] 

She said she engaged in oral sex twice more that year, including at a party [...] The party was held on a Saturday night at a girl's house. About an hour after the party started, the action moved outside, under the deck, where several couples, including this girl and a boy she didn't even like, started having oral sex.

"We came back in and sat around and talked about it," this girl recalled. "It was no big deal."

In addition, per Tamar Lewin of the New York Times, upper-income Manhattan teens are performing oral sex too. 

Tamar Lewin posted in "Teen-Agers Alter Sexual Practices, Thinking Risks Will Be Avoided" (April 5, 1997) for the New York Times that Hunter, a top high school on Manhattan's wealthy Upper East Side, provides "mint-flavored condoms with no spermicide, labeled ''ONLY for oral sex'' for the Hunter High nymphets:

For parents wondering just how much things have changed since the days when they were first experimenting with dating and sex, the answer is right there in the nurse's office at Hunter High School, a New York City public school for gifted students. 

On the shelf in the nurse's bathroom is a box of condoms, to help students avoid pregnancy and protect themselves against AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases. 

And right next to it is a box of mint-flavored condoms with no spermicide, labeled ''ONLY for oral sex.''

But Lewin wrote that the mint-flavored condoms are provided for a good cause:

Many girls also see it [i.e., oral sex] as a means of avoiding pregnancy and of preserving their virginity.

In addition, Lewin wrote that: "[...] those who teach and counsel adolescents say they have no question that there has been a significant rise in the prevalence of oral sex, and a decline in the age at which it starts [...]"

Dr. Carl Perry shared with Lewin that teen oral sex is incredibly casual:

'It is incredible how casual oral sex has become for some adolescents,'' said Dr. Carol Perry, who was a psychologist for 15 years at Riverdale Country School and Trinity School, two private [upscale] schools in New York City [...] 

A 15-year-old Manhattan private schoolgirl told Lewin that "oral sex doesn't seem like sex", that some nymphets see performing oral sex as a "rite of passage", and that one her friends had performed oral sex the previous weekend:

''[...] oral sex doesn't seem like sex. People may see the first time as a rite of passage, but after that, it's nothing much. A friend told me she'd done it to a boy last weekend [...]''

Per Elaine Sarfati, the Hunter school nurse, the mint-flavored condoms are flying off the shelf:

The mint condoms are now being taken at a faster clip than the regular ones. Elaine Sarfati, the school nurse, said she restocks 20 or 30 flavored condoms a day to the box on the shelf in the bathroom off her office -- a shelf high enough to be out of the way of younger children.

And what's a typical question concerning oral sex from a Manhattan (privileged) middle-school nymphet?

Dr. Cydelle Berlin, the health educator who founded the Adolescent AIDS prevention program at Mount Sinai Medical Center. For girls, 'Do you spit or do you swallow?' is a typical seventh-grade question. 

Lewin's article was posted in 1997, Stepp's was written in 1999, and Wolfe's Hooking Up was published in 2001, but it's very safe to assume that there's been no reduction in the occurrence of nymphet oral sex.  

And rest assured that nymphets are not restricting their services to middle-school boys and high school jocks. Nymphets are performing oral sex on men too (e.g., their bff's college-aged brothers, their "uncles", and Jeffery Epstein types for spending money.) But Orthodox Jews and Muslims and even some feminists would agree that nymphets should avoid performing oral sex - no matter the age of the benefactor. 

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