Sunday, November 29, 2015

Tavi Gevinson’s ROOKIE: Advice for Teens Attracted to Older Men

Illustration by Kelly via Rookie

We've referenced a number of books in The Allure of Nymphets about age-discrepant relationships such as Jennifer Gordon’s Jennifer Fever and Belisa Vranich and Laura Grashow’s Dating the Older Man. However, despite their helpfulness, those books weren't written for nymphets. Nonetheless, Tavi Gevinson’s teen magazine, Rookie, filled the void. 

In addition to the magazine containing several articles on masturbation, such as “Do It Yourself”, 22-year-old Amy Rose Spiegel wrote in the article “Older Men” that “One of the most frequent Just Wondering questions we get here at Rookie is some variation on the following: “I’m a teenager and I’m thinking about dating/am intensely attracted to a person who’s significantly older than me. THOUGHTS?”

Spiegel began by sharing that she “has always been interested in older dudes” and “has also dated quite a few of them” For example, Spiegel dated a 28-year-old college graduate when she was a “smart and self-aware” 15-year-old. She dissuaded the stereotype about dirty old men by writing “Finally, I don’t mean for this article to read as “A HORRIBLE OLD MAN TOOK MY YOUTHFUL INNOCENCE,” because that’s not what happened. I made my own decisions when I was 15, and I enjoyed the majority of the time I spent dating that 28-year-old as well as the older dudes who came after him.” And Spiegel wrote that at the time she “romanticized” about being Lolita and that she “... idealized the thought of someone being single-mindedly obsessed” with her the way Humbert was obsessed with Lolita.  (However, she misleadingly wrote that Lolita was a “...story about an adult man kidnapping, molesting, and raping an adolescent girl.)

Spiegel comforted the nymphet readers of Rookie by writing:

  • “First, being attracted to older guys is completely and totally normal.”
  • “It doesn’t mean you have “daddy issues””
  • “Being attracted to someone older just means you are a human person who sometimes thinks other human people are sexy!”
  • “YOU ARE VERY MATURE FOR YOUR AGE...So it’s totally fine to moon over people who are older than you!”
  • “It’s totally doable, as long as you keep some things (*cough* MY INSANELY WISE WORDS BELOW *cough*) in mind.”

Here are Spiegel’s “insanely wise words”:

1.   Spiegel warned that even if a nymphet tricks an ephebophile into believing that she is of legal age by, for example, flashing him a fake ID, the ephebophile could still go to jail (for a very long time) for even planning to have sex with an underage maiden.

2.   Spiegel advises that if a nymphet should feel secure about disagreeing with her older partner, her friends and family should be respected, and that she should be treated as a peer. However, if she has doubts about whether or not those aspects of the relationship are being fulfilled, she should not have a relationship with anyone “older than a quarter of the years” the nymphet has been alive. Thus, according to Spiegel, a sixteen-year-old should not have a relationship with anyone over 20. Clearly, Spiegel’s rule is arbitrary, has no basis and should be taken very lightly.

3.   Ironically, Spiegel encourages girls to wait to have relationships with older men, because girls “can never have a real high school romance (e.g., “passing love notes in class”) again after 12th grade is over.” I doubt that this advice will prevent a girl from having a relationship with an older man, because I have observed that girls who are in age-discrepant relationships often have young boyfriends as well.

4.   Initially, Spiegel advised nymphets not to get into illegal age-gap relationships because of the possibility of jail time for the ephebophiles, but in 4 she advises girls to avoid age-discrepant relationships because “Keeping things underground gets tiring and frustrating, not to mention a little overwhelming, really quickly...Having a significantly older partner severely limits the stuff you can do together, too. You can’t exactly bring a 30-year-old to prom!” Thus, it appears that Spiegel opines that it is more important that a nymphet avoid feeling tired, frustrated and overwhelmed than it is for the ephebophile to avoid jail time.

5.   Spiegel warned “[I]f a person who is of legal drinking age or above makes a habit of courting people who are in high school, there’s a good chance they might be a pedophile (or, if you want to be super technical, an ephebophile). However, as we know from The Allure of Nymphets, The Red Queen and Are All Men Pedophiles?(2013), all men in fact are ephebophiles; however, only some men act upon it (e.g., Frank Sinatra, Elvis, Woody Allen, etc.). And it’s worth pointing out that just like in Lolita, Cruel Intentions 2: Manchester Prep (2000), and Pretty Little Liars - the book and television series, teen girls are often the initiators of age-discrepant relationships - not the ephebophiles.

6.   Spiegel alerted nymphets against being manipulated by older men, but everything she warned against often occurs in age-consistent relationships as well. Teen girls are frequently manipulated, disrespected, undervalued and controlled by teen boys. Who other than teen boys gets angry when girls don’t return their text messages “fast enough”?

7.   Here is another example of Spiegel making a general statement about ephebophiles that relates just as well or even better to teen boys. She wrote that older men are “less likely to wait before moving past the tonsil-hockey stage.” Spiegel is inconceivably implying that teen boys are more patient and understanding of a girl’s desire to maintain her maidenhood than older men.

Spiegel’s “insanely wise words” are somewhat anti-age-gap relationships; however, she ends the article by writing  “And for all the dangers that come with dating older people, there are upsides...It’s nice to be around people who are assured of themselves and their interests, a quality that usually increases the longer you’ve been hanging out on planet Earth...Just be sure—and I say this to you no matter what age your love interest happens to be—that you and of course THEY are responsible and respectful in actions and behaviors; that you are equal partners; that you feel like you can get out of it at any time, for any reason, without fear; and that you are happy...OK? All right, get along. As always, be safe and enjoy…”

Friday, November 27, 2015

CRUEL INTENTIONS 2: MANCHESTER PREP (2000): A Teen Masturbates in Central Park

I wrote about Cruel Intentions (1999) in The Allure of Nymphets and how the film was the genesis for the book. However, Cruel Intentions 2: Manchester Prep (2000) be even more revealing, which isn't surprising considering that both films were writen and directed by Roger Kumble.

Cruel Intentions 2: Manchester Prep contains:

An age-discrepant relationship between sophomore Kathryn Merteuil and Assistant Headmaster Steve Muller. The dialogue between Kathryn and the Assistant Headmaster will sum up their relationship suitably. Kathryn threatened to expose their affair if gym wasn't removed from her schedule. Apparently, she didn't like to sweat.

Kathryn: "Isn't it against the rules for someone of your age to seduce a minor like you did to me this summer in The Hamptons?"

Assistant Headmaster: "It was you who seduced me!"

Kathryn: "You know. You're right. It was me who seduced you but then again, who will the school board believe. It's my word against yours. Think about it Steve. Something like this could ruin your career. Not to mention your marriage."


Two lipstick lesbian kissing scenes are in the film, but the most salacious incestuous kiss took place between topless seniors played by real-life twins Alicia and Annie Sorell.

Manchester Prep Lipstick Lesbian Twins

And in a scene that may be inspiring to the nymphet readers of Rookie magazine, freshman Cherie Claymon masturbated upon a horse in Central Park which was all part of Kathryn's plot to turn Cherie into the "...premier slut of Manchester Prep."


Those scenes took place between raunchy quotes like, "As the school motto goes, if you don't snort it, suck it." "I'm tired of being the only virgin of the sophomore class." And "Yesterday was my first kiss. Now you're practically touching my breast. [At] this rate, your dick will be in my mouth by lunch." "Anyone for lunch?"

Thursday, November 26, 2015

Tavi Gevinson's ROOKIE Teaches Teens How to Masturbate

Illustration by Emma D. via Rookie

Here is what is written in the About section of Rookie magazine:

Rookie is an online magazine and book series for teenagers. Each month, a different editorial theme drives the writing, photography, and artwork that we publish.

Rookie is edited by nineteen-year-old Tavi Gevinson. I became acquainted with Gevinson in 2014 after reading her New York magazine profile which promoted her first Broadway performance in This Is Our Youth. (I picked up a used copy of the raunchy teen play from Strand since the Broadway performance was cost prohibitive as it would be for most New York City based writers.)

Last week, while I was making copies in the teen section of a Manhattan private library, I noticed Rookie Yearbook One edited by Tavi Gevinson standing between two other thick volumes. Among other solicitous content,  Rookie Yearbook One, which is the print edition of the online teen magazine, contained the article “Do It Itself: What We Talk About When We Talk About Masturbation” by Jamie. 

Jamie wrote, fulfilling almost every man's fantasy about what takes place at nymphet sleepovers “Among my friends that are girls, secrets about masturbating make up the largest category of things that I am ill-advisedly made privy to. As soon as things get a little drunk-after-prom or giggly-at-a-sleepover, everyone gets all, “I totally masturbate … isn’t that CRAZY?!””

Jamie first learned about female masturbation when she was about fourteen: “I didn’t even know that female masturbation was a thing until my best friend came clean to me in the fall of freshman year. “What do you mean you’ve never masturbated?” she asked. “I thought everyone did.”

Here is a list of questions that Jamie wished that someone would have answered for her before she started masturbating as well as some vignettes on masturbation that she compiled:

1. Is masturbating wrong?

Jamie answered that some things are wrong like murder and bullying but that “Masturbation is a healthy, natural, NORMAL activity.”

2. Am I the first/last person in the world to try this?

Jamie answered this question by writing “Whatever age you decide to start masturbating, if you do, is “normal.”” And she related an anecdote from Danielle who shared that she started fingering herself in middle school: 

“I can’t even remember the first time I masturbated. I constantly humped just about everything when I was little … pillows, stuffed animals, etc. I never attached any sexual feelings or concepts to it until about middle school, which was the same time I first fingered myself. For me, I never considered humping or clitoral stimulation to be sexual until about that age.” –Danielle,* 19

3. Why should I masturbate?

Jamie answer by writing “…because you want to.”

4. So how do I actually do it?

In addition to using spit on the fingers as a lubricant, Jamie suggested the following:

“You can stick varying numbers of fingers inside of your actual vagina…”
“You can also try touching your clitoris.”
“In the same way that you can finger your vagina, you can also finger your anus (yes, that anus).”
And she recommended using the “shower sprayer”: “Spray it on top of your clit, not into your vagina. Start at a low setting.

Ellen shared that she started humping pillows in middle school, but she upgraded to a vibrator in high school:

“Back in the day, I mostly masturbated by lying in bed, face down, with a pillow between my legs, and humping the hell out of it. Eventually, in high school, some friends gave me a vibrator that was meant to be inserted, and I experimented with that quite a bit, including some anal play.”

5. Do I have to “come”? How do I know if I’ve had an orgasm?

Jamie answered by writing “You don’t have to do anything when you masturbate. The success or failure of masturbating has nothing to do with whether or not you orgasm, and everything to do with your enjoying yourself and feeling good.”  

Seventeen-year-old Sophie shared “Truthfully, I have never orgasmed when I masturbate. I’m still in pursuit.” However, eighteen-year-old Michelle revealed “I almost always orgasm, usually once, but sometimes twice. I guess I do consider it more of a ‘success’ when I do, but at the same time [unlike most males] I don’t think it’s a failure if I don’t orgasm.”

6. Should I watch porn? Is that gross? Am I gross if I like watching porn?

Jamie responded “There is nothing weird or gross about watching porn…”

In the Danish film  Anna (2009), Anna’s mother advised her to wait until she turned sixteen to watch porn. And in the French film Puppylove (2013) fourteen-year-old Diane took a break from her homework to watch some hardcore double penetration four-way pornography which she refused to turn off despite the plea of her father. Coincidentally, in the very next scene, Diane masturbated to orgasm in the bathtub.

Nineteen-year-old Erinn shared “I watch a lot of porn. Like, a lot. I used to think it was kind of a dirty thing that I couldn’t talk to a lot of people about. I felt a lot better about masturbating and watching porn, though, after I started talking to my friends and (now ex-) boyfriend about it.”

7. If I don’t like masturbating, is something wrong with me?

According to Jamie, “No”.

8. Is there a way I can refer to female masturbation without sounding like a health-class teacher?

Readers of Rookie suggested using the synonyms rubbing one out, wanking, frigging, jilling and getting off. 

Interestingly, especially when taken in the current context, Gevinson was named one of "The 25 Most Influential Teens of 2014" by Time magazine. And she was recently a guest star on Scream Queens where she was having an affair with her mid-fifty-year-old college professor which was loosely based on Mia Farrow's affair with composer and orchestra conductor André Previn.

Saturday, November 7, 2015

Nymphets and Anal Sex in Prime Time

Vacation (2015)

I wrote in The Allure of Nymphets that the first teen movie that I saw that made a reference to anal sex was Cruel Intentions (1999). In the film, Kathryn (Sarah Michelle Gellar) made a wager with her step-brother Sebastian (Ryan Phillippe) that he couldn't seduce a nymphet (Selma Blair); however, if Sebastian could corrupt the young maiden, Kathryn agreed to, “[...] fuck his brains out,” and allow him to, “[...] put it anywhere.”

Cruel Intentions (1999) "You Can Put It Anywhere" Clip

Awkward (2011)

Let's leap over a decade to MTV's Awkward. Here's MTV's brief description "about the show": 

This series takes an irreverent look at the conflict, chaos and humor that defines teenage life through the eyes of 15-year-old Jenna Hamilton[...]

In addition to other references to anal sex, on the third episode of season three, Lissa, a Palos Verdes, California high school student, offered her behymen (i.e., her anal virginity) to her boyfriend for respecting her wishes to maintain her vaginal virginity. 

And we were floored when the teen in Vacation (2015) asked the nymphet he recently met during the family road trip if he could perform analingus. 

Of course, this topic isn't limited to the United States. In the Argentinian film La Niña Santa (2004) [The Holy Girl]", there's not only teen anal sex, but a teen lipstick lesbian kiss, teen masturbation and an age-gap relationship. 

An ABC News article reported that the Bradley Hasbro Children's Research Center confirmed my suspicions that anal sex is on the rise among teens and young adults. The rise was attributed to the ease of social mores, which sexuality educator, Cory Silverberg, attributes to the proliferation of pornography.

We wrote in The Allure of Nymphets about other teen films like Not Another Teen Movie (2001) that portrayed anal sex , but we were shocked about the recent references to teen anal sex in prime time. 

Saturday, October 31, 2015


We've written on this blog and in the book about virtual, non-virtual and fictional Japanese compensated dating (i.e., high school prostitutes [Japanese: enjo kosai 援助交際])

And most recently Vice posted, Schoolgirls for Sale, a short documentary on joshi-kosei osanpo [Japanese: JKお散歩]  - Japanese students who are paid to go on walking dates .

The Akihabara neighborhood in Central Tokyo is considered ground zero for joshi kōsei\JK [Japanese: 女子高生]  - high school girl culture. The neighborhood is littered with nymphets in Japanese school girl uniforms soliciting men for messages, walks around the neighborhood or to enter a JK cafe to "chat for half an hour" for approximately $30 - all of which may lead to teen prostitution. 

In addition, there are music venues where high school girl groups like Akishibu Project perform to "pack houses" of men who pay to meet, take and buy pictures, and touch their favorite nymphets after the performance. 

A voice over opined, "This problem won't be solved unless the adults who buy and sell disappear." However, we would opine that it's a two-way street and that the ephebophiles and nymphets are equally guilty of the same vice. 

Schoolgirls for Sale (2015)

Sunday, October 25, 2015

36 FILLETTE (1988): 14-Year-Old Nymphet Ambivalent About Losing Virginity

Here's the IMDB plot summary written by JHailey for 36 Fillette (1988) which the New York Post dubbed "The French 'Lolita'!":

Lili, a pouty and voluptuous 14-year-old, is caravan camping with her family in Biarritz. She's self-aware[...]but she has a wild streak and she's testing her powers over men[...]and she's impatient with being a virgin. She sets off with her brother to a disco, latching onto[Maurice]an aging playboy who is himself hot and cold to her. She is ambivalent about losing her virginity that night, willing the next, and determined by the third. 

Lili was played by 14-year-old Delphine Zentout and her multiple nude scenes are further examples of European filmmaker's non-reluctance to show nude nymphets in sexual situations (e.g., The nymphet gave Maurice, played by 38-year-old Étienne Chicot, a hand-job and fellatio while topless.).

And when you put the blurb, "Few films are more breathtakingly honest about sexuality. '36 Fillettes' rings so true...fresh and incisive," from the Los Angeles Times into the context of the plot summary (e.g., She is ambivalent about losing her virginity...), the film should cause one who is naive about the sexuality of nymphets to change his or her opinion. 

In terms of seduction, ephebophiles should note that Maurice didn't chase Lili and and on multiple occasions he gave her the option to flee which counter-intuitively caused the nymphet to chase after him and be reluctant to leave. 

Despite the underage nudity and sex scenes, 36 Fillette was shown at the 1988 New York Film Festival.

36 Fillette was directed by Catherine Breillat and is based on her novel. Breillat also directed the age-gap relationship fairy tale Bluebeard (2009) [French: La Barbe bleue].

Saturday, October 17, 2015

Famous Teleiophile: Elizabeth Taylor: Sex with Rooney, Reagan, Flynn and Threesome with JFK By 16

24-year-old Mickey Rooney and 12-year-old Elizabeth Taylor
Tom Leonard posted the following on The Daily Mail:

Richard A. Lertzman and William J. Birnes relate in The Life and Times of Mickey Rooney that Betty Jane, the pregnant second wife of 24-year-old Mickey Rooney, caught 12-year-old Elizabeth Taylor performing oral sex on Rooney in a dressing room on the Hollywood set of National Velvet (1944)Unsurprisingly, Jane was awarded a large settlement after the divorce. 

Darwin Porter and Danforth Prince allege in Elizabeth Taylor: There is Nothing Like a Dame that:

11-year-old Taylor was taught by Lassie Come Home star, Roddy McDowall, how to pleasure men sans copulation

However, 15-year-old Taylor lost her virginity to 24-year-old British actor Peter Lawford in a limousine on the way to the home of William Randolph Hearst

J.D. Salinger said after he met 15-year-old Taylor, "She is the most beautiful creature I have ever seen in my life." 

15-year-old Taylor shared in a radio interview that she was "bored" by boys but, "wanted to do crazy, silly things [with] ... men"

This was Orson Welles' reaction after he saw the "unbelievable" 15-year-old Taylor in the MGM commissary,  "Unlike other figures in Hollywood, I have never found myself attracted to young girls. But Elizabeth Taylor had something which transcended age. I will never forget how she moved down the commissary aisle, holding her food tray. I lusted for that young girl and felt, for the first time in my life, like a dirty old man." Taylor allegedly admitted that Welles eventually forced himself upon her in his dressing room.

15-year-old Taylor was seduced on the Hollywood sofa of 36-year-old future president Ronald Reagan. Taylor said, “Reagan was treating me like a grown woman, and that thrilled me. We sat on his sofa and I could tell he wanted to get it on but he seemed reluctant to make the first move… [so] I became the aggressor.” (Piper Laurie revealed in her book, Learning to Live Out Loud: A Memoir, that five years after Taylor's fling with Reagan, the 41-year-old future president took her 16-year-old virginity.)

15-year-old Taylor was bedded by Errol Flynn after he got her tipsy on pink champagne.

38-year-old Robert Taylor adjured the camera men not to film his lower body while shooting a kissing scene with 16-year-old Taylor on the set of Conspirator (1949)

Lastly, Taylor allegedly had a swimming pool threesome with her A Date with Judy (1948)
co-star Robert Stack and congressman John F. Kennedy.

Saturday, October 10, 2015

Famous Ephebophile: Subway's Jared Fogle

Snejana Farberov reported on the Daily Mail that Jared Fogle, Subway's 37-year-old former spokesman, agreed to plead guilty to charges of possession of child pornography and traveling to have sex with two minors. The pornography was obtained from Russell Taylor, the director of Fogle's charity, the Jared Foundation, and involved 12 children.

Allegedly, since 2007 Fogle had sex with fourteen minors, some of whom were 13 and 14. The young maidens were procured via social media and websites that advertised escort services. 

Allegedly, Fogle started travelling to the Big Apple in 2010 to obtain the services of nymphet prostitutes. For example, in 2012 he allegedly had sex with a 17-year-old prostitute at the Plaza Hotel and the next day he offered her, via text messages, a finder's fee to procure him another nymphet, 'the younger, the better.' And in 2013, Fogle allegedly had sex with an underage prostitute at the Ritz. (The age of consent in New York is 17.)

What is mind boggling is that it appears that none of the teen prostitutes or escort services have been charged with any crimes like when the FBI and Manhattan law enforcement agencies recovered 16 nymphets and arrested 45 pimps and their associates in sex peddling associated with the 2014 Super Bowl. But Fogle will be imprisoned for up to 12.5 years and has to pay $100,000 to each of the 14 "victims". 

In no way are we condoning Fogle's behavior. If he were in Syria he would have been sentenced to death for his alleged deeds. And with his celebrity status he could have easily divorced his wife and, à la Frank Sinatra, married a nubile 16-year-old Midwestern nymphet. (Fogle's from Indiana where the age of consent is 16.)

Saturday, October 3, 2015

Famous Ephebophile: American Apparel's Dov "Daddy" Charney

Dov Charney
Sapna Maheshwari posted on Buzzfeed that American Apparel (AA) revealed explicit text messages and emails between teen staff members and Dov Charney, the infamous ousted founder and ex-CEO of the Los Angeles based company. The revelations were in response to a May 2015 defamation lawsuit filed by Charney.

Colleen Brown, the chair of AA's board and member of the Suitability Committee that investigated and terminated Charney, alleged that Charney “frequently engaged in inappropriate sexual banter, infantilizing [young] women and referring to himself as ‘Daddy’”.

In 2011, Charney was sued by Irene Morales who claimed that 38-year-old Charney began seducing her when she was 17 and on her 18th birthday he had anal sex with her before styling her his sex slave. However, Charney purported that Morales voluntarily sent him revealing text messages and emails - some of which were posted by Gawker. (An arbitrator awarded Morales $700,000, because Charney didn't stop nude pictures of the nymphet from being posted online.)

And the New York Times reported in 2011 that 19-year-old Kimbra Lo filed a lawsuit against 42-year-old Charney. Lo claimed that Charney undressed her, tried to have sex with her and attempted to photograph the teen after she visited his apartment to talk about getting a job as a model and photographer with AA. 

Charney has been sued at least five times; however, all of the cases were settled or dismissed without Charney being formally found guilty of any crimes.

Saturday, August 29, 2015

How to Marry Nymphets for Men Over 35

[*Disclaimer: We here at The Allure of Nymphets, believe it or not, have our morals; therefore, we advise ephebophiles to use the following information for good - not evil. In other words, we advise you to be more like Elvis, Frank Sinatra or even Woody Allen and marry nymphets of legal age - more than one if you wish depending on what country you reside in, but we adjure you to not settle for being georgiaed.]

Steele writes in Date Young Women For Men Over 35 that, as an older man, without the correct attitude (inner-game) "... you won't get anywhere even if you are slim and trim, looking good, living in the right complex, driving a beige Jag..."

The unspoken attitude should be:
"I'm the catch here, not you. I'm not going to chase you. I'm attracted to you, [and] you're attracted to me." We’re both adults. You’re a young(er) adult, and I’m an old(er) adult, but we’re both adults.

Steele advises that young women are afraid that you'll use them, because you're powerful. And that they’re (initially) afraid of what their friends, boyfriends and/or family will say; therefore, older men have to take it “slow and easy”. He writes that it takes time, especially for nymphets, to become fully invested. Thus, an ephebophile has to casually and indirectly show interest; but, too little interest and she’ll lose passion and too much interest, and you’ll frighten her. She needs to know that you're "...discreet, subtle and sensitive to her situation." It is extremely important that you let her make any verbal pronouncements about the true nature of the relationship - even if it takes several months. Johannes advised in The Seducer’s Diary "No impatience, no greediness - everything will be relished in slow draughts; she is selected, she will be overtaken."

Steel shared a faux pas: He met 19-year-old Sandy where she worked. After a few visits and conversations, she invited him out for lunch. By his fourth tequila, Steele had lost his composure and confessed to Sandy, “I’d like to have a torrid affair with you. Consequently, the nymphet asked Steele to drive her home.

Steele lists three ways to casually and indirectly show interest?
  1. Non-verbally show brief flashes of intense sexual and romantic interest. Steele shared "She loves the novelty and excitement of flirting and being the object of a man's attention. If you don't scare her away she wants more, more, more." But "If she feels pressured she will dig in her heels. [Wait] until you "accidentally" cross her path." Johannes shared "They went out...I chose to leave right after...and to walk faster...along other that when I turned...I passed them in the greatest haste without greeting them or anything - to their great astonishment."
  2. Separate these with long periods of being nice but relatively aloof.
  3. And occasionally be mean e.g.,  through in a few “digs”.

Steele warns that if you don't have mutual friends and/or weren’t introduced to the maiden, it could take a "two-month or longer siege" and that’s if you can strategically put yourself in front of her at least three times per week. But do not “open” a nymphet (excuse the pun) unless she shows an indicator of interest (IOI) which is usually done through body language (e.g., fondling her long silky hair.) Steele writes "Young women send...subtle signals." Consequently, a man who is attractive, inside and out, should keep his eyes open for IOIs. It could come from the young barista, cashier or waitress - at a play, on the subway or in the checkout line. (Here’s a list of IOIs.)

Steele encourages men to be “benevolent” dictators and remain in charge which he writes is attractive because young women are attracted to men "who won't kiss ass.” He warns that you'll be tested by flaking in this area, because females are manipulative since they can't use brute force to get what they want. In addition, he writes that they’re strongly drawn by indifference, feigned or real...[therefore, be] friendly, aloof, relaxed, powerful and confident." Always be willing to walk away and don’t be manipulated. For example, if she cancels to go to Forever 21 with her girlfriend or because the premier of her favorite MTV show is on, don’t cancel working on one of your projects to be with her. And don’t take flakes personally. Steele relates that young women can be "unstable, impulsive and irresponsible."


Above are Steele's Eleven Commandments of Courtship. He writes that I through IV are mandatory. V is the hardest. Steele clarified in another list of commandments, The Ten Commandments of Meeting, that shaking hands (VI) means that no kino should be performed and Iceberg Slim would disagree with smiling. VII means that one should avoid attempting to impress. He warned that VIII is fatal 85% of the time; therefore, don’t stare at a nymphets hillocks or fountains. X forbids acting young and hip. And the proper way to perform XI is to focus on one thing that you sincerely admire - preferably an accessory, article of clothing, hair, smile but once again make no references to her hillocks or fountains.

More information on how to have an attractive mindset can be found here and don't forget to invite us to the wedding(s).

Sunday, August 23, 2015

Nymphets "Like" Their Hot Teachers on Social Media

I shared in The Allure of Nymphets the following excerpt from Joshua Gaylord's Hummingbirds (Interestingly, Gaylord, in addition to being an adjunct professor at the New School, was an English teacher at an elite Upper East Side prep school.):

...He has, of course, pictured her naked---just as he has pictured all of his students naked at one time or another, usually from the back of the room while they are giving a presentation...This is the great secret of all the teachers at Carmin-Casey and, Binhammer is sure, all the other high schools, public or private, in the world: there is a massive naked cocktail party going on in the head of every high school teacher. Everyone thinks that teachers are like doctors, immune to the sexual charms of their clientele...In fact, Binhammer would be willing to bet that doctors are not like doctors.

A recent controversial post on BuzzFeed shows that the fantasizing can be mutual and that (some) students daydream about their teachers from the back of the classroom as well. BuzzFeed's top post with over three million views titled "13 Really Hot [High School] Teachers That Will Have You Begging For Detention. Yes, Mr. Smith. I’ll gladly stay after class" displays a number of photos taken by high school students of their "hot" teachers that were posted to Tumblr, Instagram, Snapchat and Twitter. 

The hashtags are just as interesting as pictures e.g., #Hot teachers, #teacherxstudent, #forbidden, #one sided love, #older men, #high school, #DADDY AF and #FUX ME ZADDYYYY.

College girls have a more sophisticated way of showing their attraction to their professors. On the popular website Rate My Professor, coeds can post a subjective review of their professor's teaching abilities along with a chili pepper that indicates how "Hot" the professor is. 

Thus, it's not surprising that novels, television shows and films like ttyl,  Pretty Little LiarsMTV's Scream and Molly Maxwell (2014) are so popular with nymphets. 

The likelihood that these feelings, comments and hashtags will be directly revealed to some, if not all, of these teachers is very high. But we at the Allure of Nymphets advise them to use the fact that they're teachers as a barrier to committing crimes and/or ending their careers. As the narrator in Hummingbirds advised "The fact that he is an educator entrusted by the parents of the community not to molest their children, even if those children ask to be molested [should serve as a barrier]."