From the NY Times to Netflix: Schoolgirl Sleepover Sex Stories (Part 6) | TikTok Desires, Peeping Parents, and OnlyFans Clickbait

The TikTok "Still No Head" Trend

Of course, not all schoolgirl sleepovers involve sexual activity; however, some schoolgirls don’t understand why there wasn’t any sexual activity. For example, on TikTok, some teens poetically expressed their bewilderment and dismay over not being the recipients of head (i.e., oral sex) during sleepovers. 

For example, one teen TikToker posted that she and her friend “Slept in the same bed” during “So many sleepovers\And still no head”. Another teen related that she and her friend “slept in the same bed 100\times and still got no head”. One schoolgirl even shared that her friend had “seen my boobs” and that they had “showered tg (i.e., together)\ [and] cuddled”, “yet still no head”. And not to be outdone, another teen shared that she and her friend, not only “showered tg”, but that they had “seen every inch of each others [sic] body’s [sic]”, “and still no head”. But those missed opportunities may have been for their benefit.

Recall that 13-year-old Victoria related to Nancy Jo Sales in American Girls: Social Media and the Secret Lives of Teenagers that some moms at a bat mitzvah opined that boy-girl sleepovers were “so cute”. Sophia said to Sales that some parents allow boy-girl sleepovers because “it’s being ‘feminist”’, and Sophia said that the parents allow salacious sleepovers, because they want to be considered “cool” by their daughters. And Savannah, who ruled her Brooklyn, NY middle school, had a “famous dad” whom let Savannah’s boyfriend “stay over at her house all night sometimes”. Savannah told Sales that her parents didn’t want to “repress” or “control her sexuality”. Consequently, Savannah’s classmates considered her and her parents to be “cool”.

However, the desire to achieve cool status may not be the only reason a parent will allow his or her (pre) teen daughter to have a sleepover. Take Rich Cohen’s post on AirMail: “Always Be Suspicious of the “Cool Mom”: A sex scandal involving teens and a mother engulfs upscale Greenwich, Connecticut” (February 26, 2022) 

In the post, Cohen wrote about Hadley Palmer, whom pled guilty to three counts of voyeurism and one count of risk of injury to a minor. Per Cohen, Hadley: “live[d] in one of the swankest houses in Belle Haven, [in] one of the toniest sections of Greenwich, Connecticut, [and in] one of the richest towns in America”. And in that swanky  Connecticut house, Hadley, an apparent voyeur, encouraged teen sex. Cohen wrote:

Beware the cool mom. She says she’d prefer you and your friends not drink, but, if you must, she’d rather you do it in the house, where you’ll at least be safe, which, I promise, you won’t be. She’s against drugs, but will not come down hard on you for it, as long as you keep it at home and let her have a toke, just to make sure it’s on the up-and-up. She’s against pre-marital sex, but says, if you must, because of urges, please not in the car, nor in some dirty motel, but here, in the guest room at the big house by the shore—no, not that room, nor that one, nor that one, nor that one (her house is huge) but in the one at the end of the hall by the maid’s quarters and laundry.

If you don’t believe me, check out the legal papers recently filed in the State Superior Court in Stamford, Connecticut, where 53-year-old Hadley Palmer of Greenwich, after striking a deal with prosecutors, pleaded guilty to three counts of voyeurism and one count of risk of injury to a minor.

Relatedly, Angela Andaloro posted on People “11-Year-Old Calls Mom from a Sleepover After Discovering a Camera in Her Friend's Bedroom” (March 12, 2025) In the piece, Andaloro related that, during a sleepover, an 11-year-old girl noticed that there were cameras in her friend’s room. The cameras were supposed to be for security purposes but turned off; however, there were lights on the cameras that indicated that the cameras were recording. And after the 11-year-old put a shirt over a camera, the mother of the sleepover host “removed the shirt, didn’t say anything and left". Andaloro related:

[...] the mom explains her 11-year-old daughter went to a sleepover with another friend. When the pair got to the third girl's home, they discovered "there were 'security cameras' in her friends [sic] room," she writes.

"When asked about it, she was told by the parents that they were for security purposes and that they were 'turned off,' " the mom explains, noting her daughter could tell that wasn't the case. A light on the cameras indicated they were turned on. Uncomfortable, the girls put a shirt over the camera.

"The parent came into the room, removed the shirt, didn’t say anything and left," [...]

Knowing that (some) adults are aware of the sexual activity that takes place at (some) schoolgirl sleepovers, (some) OnlyFans content creators use the allure of schoolgirl sleepover sex to gain subscribers. 

The subtitle for Rebecca Jennings’ Vulture\New York Magazine piece “They Make Millions Acting Like Sexy Babies”. (Aug. 21, 2025) is: “How the Bop House, an OnlyFans influencer group, conjures a fantasy of young girls having a horny sleepover.”  In the piece, Jennings wrote that the Bop House members conjured “a fantasy of young girls having a horny sleepover”. The conjuring was done by wearing braces, girlish rompers, midriff-baring cartoon pajamas, onesie pajamas, and Pokémon slippers. And for emphasis, the OnlyFans content creators used cartoon sound effects in their TikTok videos, which were used to drive viewers to their OnlyFans accounts, where they can make thousands per month. Jennings wrote:

Several members even wear braces, which they claim are orthodontic necessities. In loosely choreographed TikTok dances, they wear matching snug leotards, girlish rompers, curve-hugging Skims maxi dresses, and midriff-baring cartoon pajamas [...] The audio in many of their videos is essentially cartoon sound effects, and much of what happens in them emphasizes their youth, from wearing Pokémon slippers and jumping on couches to feeding each other lollipops [...] Paired with onesie pajamas, e-girl makeup on an already young-looking face [...]

Julia Filippo, a 23-year-old Bop House member, shared with Jennings that she “blew up” on OnlyFans, because “men love” her innocent appearance. 

“That’s how I blew up, because men loved how innocent I looked,” says [Julia] Filippo.

In addition, Jennings related that in a viral online video, Camilla, another 23-year-old Bop House member, asked Julia how much money she made in her first week on OnlyFans. After Julia shared that she made a whopping $54,000, Camilla opined that it was, “[...] ’cause she looks 12.” 

Lastly, yet intriguingly, Jennings opined that we would be naïve to assume that Julia, Camilla, and the other Bop House members aren’t aware of the power that appearing younger has given them. Jennings wrote: 

“Though none of the Bop House members I spoke to admitted to deliberately making themselves appear younger, it would be naïve to assume they don’t know the power it has given them.” 

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THE CUT’s Sex Diaries: The NY Party Girl (23), Ricky in Finance (43) and Sex Tape Fetishes

New York Magazine’s THE CUT posted: “This Week’s Sex Diary: The Party Girl Whose Date Sends Her Money and Gift Cards” (September 5, 2025)

The Party Girl is a 24-year-old New Yorker - “born and raised in the city” who has: “no money and no rich parents,” because her parents are “struggling artists”. Consequently, she’s “on a strict budget”, she tries “not to spend any money during the day,” and at night, she tries: “to get as much paid for as possible”. The Party Girl “barely” has food at home, and she can’t afford to order GrubHub, because it “will cost too much money.” Therefore, if she can’t get a free meal, she eats, like, peanut butter with “a few sticks of celery”.

The Party Girl is the co-owner, with her sister, of a beauty line. The Party Girl focuses on “relations and marketing”; thus, she keeps samples from the beauty line in her bag. She shared that being a party girl is: “conducive to getting our product in the right hands, since I go out every night.”

However, when the Party Girl goes out, unsurprisingly, she’s not strictly business. For example, at a rooftop party with an actress friend, the Party Girl met a vacationing Frenchman. After some “dancing and getting steamy”, she “pulled[ed] him into the bathroom”, where they “fuck[ed] against the door” before she had a “powerful orgasm”. However, the Party Girl, an apparent feminist: “Never got his name. Ha!”

Most relevantly for our purposes, the Party Girl is in a “situationship” with 44-year-old Ricky, whom she described as “very wealthy, actually fun, funny, [and] cool”. “He’s in finance, obviously.” They met at Soho House in Dumbo when she was 23. Of the age-gap situationship, the Party Girl shared: “Sometimes we fuck, sometimes we don’t.”

On cue, after sexual activity, Ricky sends the Party Girl gifts (e.g., $300 via Venmo, Amazon or Seamless gift cards). The Party Girl opined that Ricky sends her gifts after sex, because “he’s a nice guy.” However, she admitted that their age-gap situationship “sounds suspicious”. The Party Girl shared:

And just because he’s a nice guy, he’ll do things during the week like Venmo me a few hundred bucks or send me Amazon gift cards or Seamless gift cards. It sounds suspicious, but it’s really not. He’s rich and nice, I’m young and broke, and he’s generous to me.

The Party Girl wrote that she would like Ricky: “[...] even if he was a poor schmuck. You don’t have to believe me, but it’s true.” We believe her! Think about all the coed crushes on proletariat professors.

One afternoon, Ricky took the Party Girl “to some art-gallery-drinks thing”. “After the boring art thing,” they went to a restaurant for dirty martinis, where she kissed Ricky’s neck. Later, back at her tiny studio in Nolita, the age-gap couple had a “fun night”. They kissed, and Ricky fingered the Party Girl to orgasm. The Party Girl related:

After the boring art thing, we go to a restaurant and have dirty martinis. I’m kissing Ricky’s neck while he tells me about his ex-wife and work drama. He’s in finance, obviously. I don’t know or care who Ricky dates or fucks when we’re not hanging out. We never ask each other such questions.

Ricky drives me home, and I invite him into my tiny studio, but we’re both pretty tired. We kiss. He fingers me until I come. Then he drives away. A fun night!

On cue, the next morning, the Party Girl recieved a “massage gift certificate from Ricky” - “such a nice place, too!” To thank him, she “text[ed] him a million heart emojis.” After the massage at the “fancy spa”, where she spent “90 minutes of heaven [on earth]”, she “text[ed] Ricky a million thank-yous, which he hearts.”

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On Amazon Prime’s Cruel Intentions (2024), Caroline and Lucien, step-siblings and Manchester College students, attempted to seduce Annie - the 18-year-old freshman and daughter of the Vice President of the United States. Interestingly, Lucien had a “camera thing”. In other words, he couldn’t have sex unless he was making a sex tape; thus, every time he had sex on campus, it was recorded. (Note: Lucien shared his sex tapes with Caroline, whom masturbated in her sorority house bed while she watched her step-brother’s sex tape on her MacBook.) The Manchester College coeds whom Lucien made sex tapes with were willing sex tape participants, and, with the exception of the Vice President’s daughter, they had a disregard for whom saw the sex tapes.

This is relevant to the Party Girl, because after a “friend in PR” sent the Party Girl a “vibe” (i.e., a vibrator), “a tiny little guy”, from a company that the friend in PR represents, the Party Girl “double-lock[ed]” her doors and tried it out. Her verdict: “The vibe is a gem. I text my PR friend that I fully support her client.” Subsequently, the Party Girl filmed herself “using the new vibe”, and she sexted her Gen Z amateur porn to Dylan - a business school student whom lives in an apartment, “which is owned by his parents.”

Fascinatingly, like the Manchester College coeds, the Party Girl didn’t care if someone other than Dylan saw her sext. The Party Girl wrote:

I film myself using the new vibe and send it to Dylan. I am not worried about what Dylan will do with the vid. He can jerk off to it. Or show his friends. Who cares!

(Note: Dylan never responded to the Party Girl’s sext. Is that because receiving sexts is so common (for Dylan) that they don’t warrant a reply?)

And this is not an uncommon sentiment among Gen Z, which is a shift away from Gen X and even some Gen Y, whom are, in general, more protective over the distribution of their sexts.

For instance, on the “Spilling all of my FIRSTS” episode of the Extra Dirty podcast (June 5, 2025), a questioner wanted some advice from Hallie Batchelder, a NYC influencer with 645.6K TikTok followers and the podcast’s host, for some “extra dirty advice” about making sex tapes with three (!) of her “sneaky links” (i.e., casual sex partners). Understandably, the questioner was hesitant about making the three (!) separate sex tapes, because she had only made sex tapes in high school with her “long-term high school boyfriend”. The questioner asked Hallie: “Have you ever made a sex tape with a casual hookup?”

Hallie, who, à la the Party Girl, had a Venmo Sugar Daddy too, responded by sharing that, like Lucien, she has a sex tape problem and kink too, because she makes a sex tape with every casual hookup. Hallie opined that making a sex tape is similar to making a YouTube podcast; thus, she feels obligated to perform for the camera during casual hookups, because, to Hallie, having casual sex is almost like being on stage. Hallie said,

“Oh my god, I've made sex tapes with everyone. It's actually a problem and a kink of mine. Like, every casual hookup I've ever had, I'm, like, whip out the camera. I do have a podcast, so, like, whenever a camera is out, I feel, like, I perform. I kind of look at sex tapes the same way. It's, like, almost, like, I'm on a stage.”

Hallie said that she loves the idea that her sextapes enter the “spank bank” (i.e., saved content for masturbation), because she gets gratification from knowing that a guy is masturbating to, say, a sex tape of her oral sex performance. Hallie said,

“And I just, like, love the idea cuz, like, these are going to the spank bank. Like, these videos are going straight to the spank bank. And there's just something - a thought of a guy, like, you know, like, jerking off or whatever to, like, a sex tape of you, like, sucking them off or whatever that just makes - brings me gratification.”

In addition, Hallie shared that it’s hot to watch her performances in sextapes, because it’s similar to an athlete analyzing game film. While watching her sextapes, Hallie has fun analyzing the angles, the lighting, and assessing how she looks from the camera’s perspective. Hallie said,

“I think it's hot. Like, I think it's so hot to make a sex tape and then watch it back. Like, you know how like sports players they have like film and then like film meetings after. That's how I treat sex tapes with my casual hookups. We'll have a sex tape. We'll get all the angles, you know, maybe get a light in there. [...] I want to be filmed. I also, like, want to see what I look like from, like, a camera perspective. I think it's, like, fun. Maybe I'm just like a narcissist [...]”

However, Hallie advised that making a sex tape should happen organically.

“I wouldn't plan it. [...] No, I think it should be on a whim. Like, this is how I do it. I'll be, like, fooling around with a guy in my bed and then I'll just, like, "Oh my God, film me. This is so fun. That's so hot. And they'll always be, like, ‘Yep.’”

And Hallie warned the questioner about the possibility of sextape leaks, but Hallie said that, sometimes, like the Party Girl, she wants her casual hookups to leak her “amazing” sex tapes. Hallie said,

“But, like, sometimes I'm, like, I wish they would show their friends the amazing work that I've put into them.”

In the end, Hallie advised the questioner to have fun and make the three (!) sex tapes with her “sneaky links”, because making casual hookup sex tapes is fun and hot. Hallie advised,

“And yeah, I would just say have fun with it.”

“I would say do it. It's fun. It's hot. But at the end of the day, just like be careful [...]”

Further reading: “Influencer Hallie Batchelder: (Teen) Anal Sex and Venmo Sugar Daddies”

OnlyFans on High School and College Campuses

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In the article “OnlyFans on Campus” that was published in the September 2025 issue of Town & Country, Ian Frisch profiled Shayna Loren - an advertising student at Boston University, “a highly selective, Top 50 institution that charges more than $91,000 per year”.

Here’s the article’s deck:

Remember when coeds made some extra cash stacking books at the library or working a shift at a restaurant? Now, with tuition skyrocketing and talk of entrepreneurship and fast and easy millions in the air, students—including those attending highly selective schools—are turning to a new line of work [OnlyFans] to pay the [high school and] college bills.

Frisch wrote that in Shayna’s Boston University (BU) public speaking class, Shayna, a BU Presidential Scholar, did a presentation titled “Influencing: The Perfect Way to Never Use Your College Degree”, where: “She spoke about the business she was running right now: content creation for social media, including OnlyFans.” Frisch wrote:

And then, Public Speaking, where [Shayna] Loren had to give a presentation about what she hoped her future career might be, and why it was a worthwhile pursuit.

When it was her turn to speak, [Shayna] Loren got up in front of the class and connected her laptop to the projector. Her presentation was called “Influencing: The Perfect Way to Never Use Your College Degree.” [Shayna] Loren wasn’t going to give a presentation about what she hoped to do after college. She spoke about the business she was running right now: content creation for social media, including OnlyFans, the subscription-based website that has become inextricably linked to adult content.

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Shayna shared with her professor and classmates that she has made: “[...] more than $1.1 million in earnings over the past three years—after OnlyFans took its 20 percent cut.”

If you did the math correctly, you would have come to the conclusion that Shayna was 18 and a high school student when she began posting adult content (e.g., topless) on OnlyFans. Unsurprisingly, Shayna made a whopping $50,000 during her second month on OnlyFans. Frisch wrote:

[Shayna] Loren, 21 and starting her senior year this month, has been doing OnlyFans since her senior year of high school. Loren, 21 and starting her senior year this month, has been doing OnlyFans since her senior year of high school. A natural entrepreneur (she previously ran her own handmade soap company), she saw the sums of money that could be made through online content—especially if she was willing to go topless [...] “My second month on OnlyFans, I made $50,000,” she says. “At that point I couldn’t stop.”

“I’m comfortable showing, like, my boobs,” she says.

Understandably, Shayna’s parents, “her mother is a doctor, her father a marketing entrepreneur”, could not cover the over $91,000 BU tuition; however, that was not a problem, because by Shayna’s sophomore year: “Her OnlyFans income could cover it.”

Of course, Shayna isn’t the first coed to make adult content to pay for college. Frisch reminded us about Belle Knox, whom became a teen porn star when she was an 18-year-old freshman Blue Devil, and Maya Moren, whom pays for her healthcare degree with her OnlyFans earnings . Frisch wrote:

Turning to adult entertainment to help pay for college isn’t a new thing; Duke University student Belle Knox became a national phenomenon in 2014 for doing porn as a way to avoid student loans.

For [Shayna] Loren and some students like her, OnlyFans has become a 21st-century gold rush, a get-rich-quick scheme in the internet age that can provide relief from college’s skyrocketing cost. “And it’s not just school. It’s books, a computer, room and board—all those other things you need,” says Maya Morena, who is pursuing a healthcare degree on the East Coast. “I pay for all of it from doing OnlyFans.

Strategically, Shayna uses the allure of sexualized college girls, and “plays up her college girl persona, which has become a core element of her brand” to get money from her “71,300 OnlyFans subscribers.” Shayna shared with Frisch:

“My followers are superengaged with my everyday life, so showing that side of my college experience is very valuable.”

In the end, Frisch posed some interesting rhetorical questions about whether or not Shayna is engaged in (teen) prostitution: 

Is selling topless photos on OnlyFans a form of prostitution? [...] Is it pornography if it’s self-produced? There are no easy answers to these questions. Still, the highly subjective nature of what constitutes pornography or sex work allows individual creators to formulate their own definitions of how they monetize their bodies.

Unconvincingly, Shayna opined that her OnlyFans adult content is not pornography but is simply (nude) modeling. Frisch wrote: 

Loren, for example, considers the content she posts on OnlyFans more akin to modeling (à la Playboy, for which she has previously posed) rather than pornography.