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| The TikTok "Still No Head" Trend |
Of course, not all schoolgirl sleepovers involve sexual activity; however, some schoolgirls don’t understand why there wasn’t any sexual activity. For example, on TikTok, some teens poetically expressed their bewilderment and dismay over not being the recipients of head (i.e., oral sex) during sleepovers.
For example, one teen TikToker posted that she and her friend “Slept in the same bed” during “So many sleepovers\And still no head”. Another teen related that she and her friend “slept in the same bed 100\times and still got no head”. One schoolgirl even shared that her friend had “seen my boobs” and that they had “showered tg (i.e., together)\ [and] cuddled”, “yet still no head”. And not to be outdone, another teen shared that she and her friend, not only “showered tg”, but that they had “seen every inch of each others [sic] body’s [sic]”, “and still no head”. But those missed opportunities may have been for their benefit.
Recall that 13-year-old Victoria related to Nancy Jo Sales in American Girls: Social Media and the Secret Lives of Teenagers that some moms at a bat mitzvah opined that boy-girl sleepovers were “so cute”. Sophia said to Sales that some parents allow boy-girl sleepovers because “it’s being ‘feminist”’, and Sophia said that the parents allow salacious sleepovers, because they want to be considered “cool” by their daughters. And Savannah, who ruled her Brooklyn, NY middle school, had a “famous dad” whom let Savannah’s boyfriend “stay over at her house all night sometimes”. Savannah told Sales that her parents didn’t want to “repress” or “control her sexuality”. Consequently, Savannah’s classmates considered her and her parents to be “cool”.
However, the desire to achieve cool status may not be the only reason a parent will allow his or her (pre) teen daughter to have a sleepover. Take Rich Cohen’s post on AirMail: “Always Be Suspicious of the “Cool Mom”: A sex scandal involving teens and a mother engulfs upscale Greenwich, Connecticut” (February 26, 2022)
In the post, Cohen wrote about Hadley Palmer, whom pled guilty to three counts of voyeurism and one count of risk of injury to a minor. Per Cohen, Hadley: “live[d] in one of the swankest houses in Belle Haven, [in] one of the toniest sections of Greenwich, Connecticut, [and in] one of the richest towns in America”. And in that swanky Connecticut house, Hadley, an apparent voyeur, encouraged teen sex. Cohen wrote:
Beware the cool mom. She says she’d prefer you and your friends not drink, but, if you must, she’d rather you do it in the house, where you’ll at least be safe, which, I promise, you won’t be. She’s against drugs, but will not come down hard on you for it, as long as you keep it at home and let her have a toke, just to make sure it’s on the up-and-up. She’s against pre-marital sex, but says, if you must, because of urges, please not in the car, nor in some dirty motel, but here, in the guest room at the big house by the shore—no, not that room, nor that one, nor that one, nor that one (her house is huge) but in the one at the end of the hall by the maid’s quarters and laundry.
If you don’t believe me, check out the legal papers recently filed in the State Superior Court in Stamford, Connecticut, where 53-year-old Hadley Palmer of Greenwich, after striking a deal with prosecutors, pleaded guilty to three counts of voyeurism and one count of risk of injury to a minor.
Relatedly, Angela Andaloro posted on People “11-Year-Old Calls Mom from a Sleepover After Discovering a Camera in Her Friend's Bedroom” (March 12, 2025) In the piece, Andaloro related that, during a sleepover, an 11-year-old girl noticed that there were cameras in her friend’s room. The cameras were supposed to be for security purposes but turned off; however, there were lights on the cameras that indicated that the cameras were recording. And after the 11-year-old put a shirt over a camera, the mother of the sleepover host “removed the shirt, didn’t say anything and left". Andaloro related:
[...] the mom explains her 11-year-old daughter went to a sleepover with another friend. When the pair got to the third girl's home, they discovered "there were 'security cameras' in her friends [sic] room," she writes.
"When asked about it, she was told by the parents that they were for security purposes and that they were 'turned off,' " the mom explains, noting her daughter could tell that wasn't the case. A light on the cameras indicated they were turned on. Uncomfortable, the girls put a shirt over the camera.
"The parent came into the room, removed the shirt, didn’t say anything and left," [...]
Knowing that (some) adults are aware of the sexual activity that takes place at (some) schoolgirl sleepovers, (some) OnlyFans content creators use the allure of schoolgirl sleepover sex to gain subscribers.
The subtitle for Rebecca Jennings’ Vulture\New York Magazine piece “They Make Millions Acting Like Sexy Babies”. (Aug. 21, 2025) is: “How the Bop House, an OnlyFans influencer group, conjures a fantasy of young girls having a horny sleepover.” In the piece, Jennings wrote that the Bop House members conjured “a fantasy of young girls having a horny sleepover”. The conjuring was done by wearing braces, girlish rompers, midriff-baring cartoon pajamas, onesie pajamas, and Pokémon slippers. And for emphasis, the OnlyFans content creators used cartoon sound effects in their TikTok videos, which were used to drive viewers to their OnlyFans accounts, where they can make thousands per month. Jennings wrote:
Several members even wear braces, which they claim are orthodontic necessities. In loosely choreographed TikTok dances, they wear matching snug leotards, girlish rompers, curve-hugging Skims maxi dresses, and midriff-baring cartoon pajamas [...] The audio in many of their videos is essentially cartoon sound effects, and much of what happens in them emphasizes their youth, from wearing Pokémon slippers and jumping on couches to feeding each other lollipops [...] Paired with onesie pajamas, e-girl makeup on an already young-looking face [...]
Julia Filippo, a 23-year-old Bop House member, shared with Jennings that she “blew up” on OnlyFans, because “men love” her innocent appearance.
“That’s how I blew up, because men loved how innocent I looked,” says [Julia] Filippo.
In addition, Jennings related that in a viral online video, Camilla, another 23-year-old Bop House member, asked Julia how much money she made in her first week on OnlyFans. After Julia shared that she made a whopping $54,000, Camilla opined that it was, “[...] ’cause she looks 12.”
Lastly, yet intriguingly, Jennings opined that we would be naïve to assume that Julia, Camilla, and the other Bop House members aren’t aware of the power that appearing younger has given them. Jennings wrote:
From the NY TIMES to Netflix: Schoolgirl Sleepover Sex Stories (Part 1):“Though none of the Bop House members I spoke to admitted to deliberately making themselves appear younger, it would be naïve to assume they don’t know the power it has given them.”
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